So you met an Aquarius. What an interesting specimen. You’ve never dated one before so you have no clue what to expect or how to handle her/him. What are the do’s and don’ts? Is your sign even compatible with an Aquarian? You should definitely look that up first and foremost and once you have established where you two sit on the compatibility scale here are a few things you should definitely know about dating a water bearer.
Pick it apart until the cows come home and then continue to do it right to the bitter end. They have to know who, what, where, when and why. They have to know this all the time with everything. Be prepared to be analyzed to death and everything you do. Actually everything that goes on in the world. They are very smart thinkers. Their brains are in overdrive a lot. They love mental stimulation. No worries though , they aren’t arrogantly smarter, they are just smarter and quite confident in their intelligence. They can get lost in there too which actually brings us to point #2.
2. They can and will get lost in their own heads.
They don’t care if you want to join the party or not. They are perfectly fine inside their heads thinking about things. You may have to snap them out of it. Because they are so busy thinking things to death, they can become disconnected easily and really without even knowing it. Gently bring them back or just have patience with them as they find their own way back to reality.
3. Don’t try to tie them down unless you two are madly in love, which, will take time anyway.
They don’t fall in love too quickly, remember analyze everything. They like to have their space and do their own thing. If you don’t want anybody being in your back pocket, the Aquarian is perfect for you. They don’t have time to sit there and babysit and they aren’t interested anyway. They like their space and will respect yours too.
4. Sexual exploration.
Are you ready to try new things and go on new adventures in the bedroom, or the kitchen counter or bathroom floor? Wherever really. The Aquarian loves to explore and has an insatiable desire to try everything at least once. Remember the analyze thing ? Because they read and analyze so much, they also want to experiment what they just read to see if it’s true or if it works and that includes sex. Lucky you. You should have the same sexual appetite as they do or forget it. They will tire of you quickly.
5. Loyal and loving and oh so devoted.
When they finally do fall in love with you it’s for real. No wishy washy love for them. It’s all or nothing. They will be fiercely loyal to you and expect the same in return. In the beginning they may have seemed cold and stand offish but you can expect that to go away once they claim their love for you. If you have a hard time showing them back how much you love them, chances are you will lose them. It takes a lot for them to be that vulnerable. If you aren’t on the same page, they’re gone.
6. No crazy romance novel stuff for them.
They really aren’t into romance much. Save the flowers for your mom or grandma. Remember they are head thinkers, not heart thinkers. They are mentally stimulating people and not so much into that romance stuff. It’s just not their thing. They don’t mind a bit of romance just don’t get carried away. It doesn’t interest them. You want to excite them? Sit and have a conversation with them about how the universe works. Now that’s sexy.
You can see the Aquarian is all about the head, mental stimulation, being independent and super smart. If you think you can handle him/her then you’re set for a great adventure. If you prefer to send flowers for no reason, perhaps you should hook up with a Pisces instead. Want to be with each other all the time? Choose a Cancer. Either way, be sure you are ready for an Aquarian as it will be a fun ride regardless.