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8 Things You Should Know If You Are Dating A Scorpio

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Ah the Scorpio man or woman. So much passion, so much intensity and so much secrecy. They draw you in like a super turbo charged magnet and hold you there until you can't take much more. Their sexual charm is through the roof so if it's hot steamy sex you want, you got the right sign.

With every sign, we know there are some things we are either very compatible with or not at all. Take no chances with a Scorpio. If you aren't compatible, keep on walking.   If you want to try anyway, expect intensity and fireworks. Lots of fireworks.   What other things should you know ab out these commanding type personalities and signs?

dating_a_scorpio1. They don't trust easy.

And they don't forget about that time 15 years ago when so and so screwed them over. Nope. They hang on to that for dear life and make sure you know all about it so you don't even try doing it to them. They bring it to the foreground immediately in a gentle manipulative way because they want you to get it, understand it and know that it really pissed them off. Sort of as a way of warning for you.

2. They are hot passionate sexy creatures.

They are actually driven and fueled by sex and passion. Scorpios love sex and lots of it. It's high on their priority list when finding a suitable partner. If you aren't into sex, stay away from Scorp. They will find it somewhere else which leads me to number 3.

3. Sneaky and secretive.

They won't tell you everything. You don't need to know everything. You certainly don't need to be looking at their cell phone contacts. As a matter of fact, their phone is probably locked so you can't check anyway. They just don't want you to know everything about their life and they will never tell you, no matter how long you have been dating for. You will never know.

4. Doggedly determined.

Like so determined you might even think they are borderline crazy. They should have given up a long time ago but they persist. Persist as in giving up is not an option. When they want something, look out and get out of their way. They'll get it and if they don't? Well you won't hear the end of it and they'll try something else.

5. They like control of their relationships.

They like to choose the restaurant, control the pace of the relationship, control just about everything actually. Scorpios just like having and being in control. If you take that away from them or try to take over, you're doomed. If you like someone who is in control all the time, then the Scorpio is your sign for sure.

6. Don't ever lie.

Ever. They hate liars and untruths. Even if you told a teeny little white lie and thought you could get away with it, they will find out and when they do it won't be pretty. Remember #1? The trust thing, right. If you blew it right from the get go, just walk away. If you stay, they will never let you live it down. Remember that time you told me … .? Yes, you'll hear that for the rest of your relationship.

7. There is no grey area.

It's black or white, yes or no. There is no maybe with a Scorpio which could be a good thing. You'll never be in doubt. If they say no, good luck trying to change their mind. Chances are you won't.

8. They like a tell it like it is type of person.

No wishy washy stuff here. They aren't mind readers and aren't into games. They admire an upfront and down to earth person as that is who they are. Remember black and white, right? Just be you. That's who they love anyway.

9. They will be and are very devoted to you.

They may have some control issues and maybe even be a little secretive but one thing you will never have to question is their love and desire for you. They are passionately and truly devoted to you, and your well being.

Scorpios are not generally compatible with water or air signs so if this is you, dater beware. It may start out all hot and steamy and great in the beginning but things could turn sour quickly. If you aren't up for changing your personality anytime soon, then walk away. Just go. It's ok.

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Steven Aitchison

Steven Aitchison is the author of The Belief Principle and an online trainer teaching personal development and online business.  He is also the creator of this blog which has been running since August 2006.