Personal Development

The One Person Standing In Between You and Your Soulmate

Written by Vishnu

You might have been waiting for years for your soulmate to show up.

You’ve done the cleanses, visited the astrologers, done every astrological ritual, visited the holy sites, spoken with psychics and had prayers for the ideal mate to show up.

You’ve visualized, written out who you’re looking for and affirmed the dream lover that you’ve been waiting for your entire life.

Yet, crickets.

What gives?

Where the hell is this person that was supposed to show up 5 years ago, sweep you off your life and deliver a happily ever after life?

The problem is the person standing in the way between you and your soulmate.

I hate to break the news to you but the person standing in the way is you.

The only person who can do anything about attracting the right lover and manifesting them is you.

Let me be clear; it’s not about you having to do anything either to manifest this person.

All of you have to do is become the highest and best version of yourself.

Our partners and attractions are simply telling us the temperature we are radiating at. The people who come into our lives are simply the frequency we are putting out there.

If you’re finding losers who are charming but superficial, it might have less to do with them and more to do what’s going on within you.

It’s not about finding the right partner; it’s about being the right partner.

Your ideal partner will show up when you are vibrating at your highest level.

You don’t have to work on much except yourself.

So, how do you attract your soulmate?

Here are 5 ways to attract the soulmate of your dreams.

Let go of past resentment and hurt

If you don’t let go of past hurt and heartbreak, you will be held back by your past.

You have to forgive, let go and be willing to bid farewell to your past. Your past no longer exists but if you carry around your past with you today, you will be weighed down with heaviness and grief.

If you’re not ready to move on, you won’t be ready to attract the right partner.

Work on your emotional and mental healing

We all have childhood scars and wounds.

They don’t go away on their own and these wounds have a significant impact on our present lives.

The idea isn’t to go back and live in this place but to work on healing these wounds.

It’s to speak about them, acknowledge them and find healing for them. This may require therapy, a counselor, journaling or spiritual practices to help you let go of deep-rooted wounds.

A broken heart will attract broken souls.

A healed heart will attract your healthy soulmate.

Improve your character

Are you the person you want to be today?

Are you angry, judgmental, impatient or egoistic?

The first step to improving your character is knowing there is something wrong.

Don’t think your soulmate will come and help you fix the character flaws.

You’ll be attracting those character flaws and characters into your life!

If you want a higher quality soulmate, develop a higher quality character.

Build habits, work on self-improvement and becoming a better person every day.

Work on honesty, being calm, being genuine, being kind.

Adopt the qualities you want in your ideal partner

Let me put it another way.

Imagine the ideal qualities that you want in your soulmate.

Your only job, if you choose to accept it, is to develop those qualities within yourself.

Let’s say you want a gentle-heart, compassionate and kind soul who is good at listening, supportive and loyal.

Ask yourself this very simple question: are you the person you want?

Nothing to worry about if you’re not.

All that’s left to do is work on yourself to be the kind of person that you want to date and spend your life with. As you become the person you desire, your desire will manifest in a person.

Vibrate at a high frequency

If you’re cynical, bitter and negative, you will attract people at that energy level.

If you’re angry and short-tempered, you’ll once again attract people who are vibrating at that level.

How do you vibrate at a higher frequency?

Do things that bring you happiness, joy and peace. Look for ways to improve your perspective and outlook on life.

Surround yourself with positive people and read inspirational things.

Keep looking for ways to feel good about your life and whatever is in it.

Escape jobs that kill your soul and friends who bring you down.

When you’re vibrating with happiness and are living a soulful life, your soulmate magically appears.

The only person between you and your soulmate is you. The good news is that you have the power to make the changes in your life and invite your soulmate in.

Some Amazing Comments

Comments

About the author

Vishnu

Vishnu Subramaniam is the writer behind the popular self-help blog www.vishnusvirtues.com where he writes about starting over in life. For Vishnu's latest book, Does True Love Exist: 15 Simple Ideas for Finding Your Life Partner, click here.