When everyone is thinking the same, no one is thinking." John Wooden
We seem to gravitate to a place of comfort and like to spend time with people who are like us. These people agree with us, think like us and have a similar viewpoint on issues. While this makes our lives easier, there is also a downside. Only spending time with people like us keeps us in our comfort zone, and growth occurs outside of our comfort zone. While it may be less comfortable to be with people who are different, it also helps us expand ourselves in crucial areas if we wish to grow.
Here are 5 reasons to spend time with people who are different from us.
Increases our self-awareness and acceptance of others
Being around those who think differently from us helps us to understand ourselves better. We become more conscious of the reasons that we chose to be and think as we do and keeps us from the trap of believing there is only one way to see things. It helps keep us out of the us versus them and right versus wrong thinking patterns. Instead of black and white we see a lot of gray.
Challenges us to think critically
People who are different challenge our ways of thinking, our perceptions and norms. We can easily fall into the trap of only seeing things from our limited perspective. Being with others that see things differently will keep us aware of that there are many difference perspectives that all come with their own reasons for thinking this way. This awareness will challenge us to change our own perceptions if we find others that make more sense to us.
Allows us to benefit from others strengths that we may be lacking in
All of us have strengths and weaknesses. For example someone may be a big picture thinker who has little interest and patience in the details. This person would greatly benefit from having someone in their close circle who is a detail person. The detail person would help them from making bad decisions due to failing to think of all the consequences of their actions. The reverse benefit would come to the detail person who could never make a decision and start on a project because they get bogged down in the details.
Helps us make better decisions
Having people in our circle who are able to see situations from many different angles helps us to get a more complete and clearer picture from which we can make more informed decisions. Abraham Lincoln was well known for putting people in his cabinet who thought quite differently from him. While many would find this threatening, he realized that he had blind spots in his own thinking and needed people who were strong in the areas that he was weak in. This helped him form a strong multi-faceted team that was seldom caught off guard because they had not thought of all aspects of an issue.
Adds zest and imagination to life
While being around those like us can make us comfortable it can also cause us to become boring, unimaginative and dull. We need challenge in our lives to keep us sharp and stimulated. It opens up a whole new and exciting world of possibilities for us imagine and have fun with.
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