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		<title>the 4th age of a business maturity</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[This article is part of a series about the 7 ages of a business, an entrepreneur perspective, initially published at eDragonu.ro. The remaining 6 articles are published as guest posts on other 6 fine personal development and business blogs. You will find links to them at the end of this article. Doing It Right Now [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;">This article is part of a series about the 7 ages of a  business, an entrepreneur perspective, initially published at <a href="http://www.edragonu.ro" target="_blank">eDragonu.ro</a>.  The remaining 6 articles are published as guest posts on other 6 fine personal  development and business blogs. You will find links to them at the end of this  article.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: justify;">Doing It Right</h3>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Now you know what to do and you’re doing it. You’re past learning, you enjoy  having, using and promoting your construction. The maturity period is the most  rewarding age from an entrepreneur standpoint. You’re in the middle of  something but you can also control it and observe it from the outside. You  can’t be wrong.</p>
<p>Whenever your cash-flow is steadily positive for more than 2 years, you can bet  you’re in a maturity period. Steady pool of clients and loyal employees are  also a sign of a business maturity. If you stared the business with outside  financing, this is usually the time when you’re able to pay your debt and make  break even.</p>
<p>Past partnerships are running smoothly because they were verified in the  attention period. Your products or services are solid and you make a lot of  recurring sales. Your clients knows you and you don’t need to convince them to  buy from you anymore, they’re just buying. Your role is mostly to observe and  adjust.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: justify;">What To Avoid</h3>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Although you reached a more than stable point, there are still some thins you  can do wrong in your maturity period. Here’s what I find out it’s better to  avoid:</p>
<h4>Relaxation</h4>
<p style="text-align: justify;">This is the biggest trap in the maturity period. Being successful doesn’t  necessarily mean you DID IT. One of the secrets of successful entrepreneurs is  that they never think they did it. Success is just a temporary station on the  road to the next one. Nevertheless, the relaxation temptation will be very  strong. After the first 3 periods of very high involvement, all you have to do  now is to observe and adjust. Just don’t relax too much otherwise you’ll miss  some important details and you won’t make the necessary adjustments.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: justify;">Partnerships</h3>
<p style="text-align: justify;">This must confuse some of you. In the maturity period, I avoided all kind of  partnerships. All my successful partnerships were done in the attention phase.  But in the maturity period, although I received almost weekly a new partnership  proposal, I avoided it constantly. At some level, I was just postponing the  most important ones to the next stage, the expansion. And at the other level, I  was trying to avoid some brand dissolution. If you’re known in your market, the  best way to still be remembered is to just remain the same.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: justify;">Expansion</h3>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Just because you can predict your processes and profit of your company doesn’t  mean you’re ready to expand. In my experience, expansion was a constant temptation,  during all stages, but was much more present when I experienced a moderated  success. Expansions means partnerships and the same reason for avoiding  partnerships was applied to expansion: keeping a strong market image. Also,  expansion works much better if you have at least 3 years fo constant growth  behind.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: justify;">What To Do</h3>
<p style="text-align: justify;">As always, each business stage is better suited for specific activities. Here’s  something I successfully did during the maturity stage.</p>
<h4 style="text-align: justify;">Invest</h4>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Don’t be afraid to put your money where your business is. Invest constantly in  your processes, in your employees, in your products. Your positive cash-flow  will be able to sustain short and medium term investments. Depending on your  business type you will want to invest in materials, stocks or people. I had a  business in services so most of the investment was done in people. I started to  add consistent incentives to increase performance and started a team building  program. And of course, I started to invest in me, by attending several courses  and starting an MBA. Didn’t finish the MBA, but it was a nice experience.</p>
<h4 style="text-align: justify;">Enjoy</h4>
<p style="text-align: justify;">It’s your right! You’re successful, enjoy it. I met a lot of entrepreneurs in  the maturity stage of their business with quite a sad attitude. Although they  had a successful business they were constantly worrying. Most of them lost  their businesses shortly after the maturity period. I do think a balanced and  happy attitude is one of the keys to constant success. There is no better stage  to really enjoy the benefits of your work than the maturity period. As long as  enjoying is not equal relaxation, you’ll be fine.</p>
<h4 style="text-align: justify;">Prepare</h4>
<p style="text-align: justify;">During this relatively stable period it will also be very good to start  preparing for the next challenges. Maturity is usually followed by expansion,  one of the most demanding and risky periods in your business. Approaching it in  a good shape will be one clever move. Preparing means observing your market,  identifying other key players, assessing new products and markets, hunting for  new employees. All that will be needed in the next stage. Preparing also ,means  observing your cash-flow and making provisions for your next fights. Last, but  not least, prepare means just getting ready to run again.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: justify;">From Maturity To Expansion</h3>
<p style="text-align: justify;">If you made it till maturity, you’ve already accomplished a lot. But you’re not  even by far at the end of race. You’re heading towards expansion. The next  phase will be demanding and you better get ready for it. I remember that, when  I was in the maturity stage, I had no idea that I’m facing expansion, so I made  one of the mistakes I told you to avoid: I relaxed too much. When I had to face  the decision: grow or die, it was like hitting a train. Well, I survived.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">The maturity period lasted about 3 years for me (from a total time frame of 10  years of having a business from the first stage to the last one). It was the  only period where I enjoyed a positive cash-flow and also it was the most  fulfilling one. If I would start a business again &#8211; which is not at all  improbable &#8211; I would do my best to start it directly into the maturity stage.<br />
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<p>You can find the remaining 6 ages of your business on these fine personal  development and business blogs:</p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Arial,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>1) The Enthusiasm Business Age…</strong></span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> </span></span></span><a href="http://www.attractionmindmap.com/the-1st-age-of-a-business-enthusiasm/" target="_blank"><span style="color: #0000ff;"><span style="font-family: Arial,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><em><span style="font-weight: normal;">Attraction Mind Maps</span></em></span></span></span></a><span style="font-family: Arial,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong><br />
2) The Naivety Business Age…</strong></span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> </span></span></span><a href="http://smallbizbee.com/index/2009/05/22/the-2nd-age-of-a-business-naivety/" target="_blank"><span style="color: #0000ff;"><span style="font-family: Arial,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><em><span style="font-weight: normal;">Small Biz Bee</span></em></span></span></span></a><span style="font-family: Arial,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong><br />
3) The Attention Age &#8230; <em><a href="http://advancedlifeskills.com/blog/the-3rd-age-of-a-business-attention/" target="_blank">Advanced Life Skills<br />
</a></em>4) The Maturity Business Age…</strong></span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> </span></span></span><a href="../2009/05/22/the-4th-age-of-a-business-maturity/" target="_blank"><span style="color: #0000ff;"><span style="font-family: Arial,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><em><span style="font-weight: normal;">Steven Aitchison</span></em></span></span></span></a><span style="font-family: Arial,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong><br />
5) The Expansion Business Age…</strong></span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> </span></span></span><a href="http://www.ratracetrap.com/the-rat-race-trap/the-5th-age-of-a-business-expansion.html" target="_blank"><span style="color: #0000ff;"><span style="font-family: Arial,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><em><span style="font-weight: normal;">Rat Race Trap</span></em></span></span></span></a><span style="font-family: Arial,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong><br />
6) The Leadership Business Age…</strong></span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> </span></span></span><a href="http://mywifequitherjob.com/the-6th-age-of-a-business-leadership/%20" target="_blank"><span style="color: #0000ff;"><span style="font-family: Arial,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><em><span style="font-weight: normal;">My Wife Quit Her Job</span></em></span></span></span></a><span style="font-family: Arial,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong><br />
7) The Exhaustion Business Age…</strong></span></span><span style="font-family: Arial,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> </span></span></span><a href="http://learnthis.ca/2009/05/the-7th-age-of-a-business-exhaustion/" target="_blank"><span style="color: #0000ff;"><span style="font-family: Arial,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><em><span style="font-weight: normal;">Learn This</span></em></span></span></span></a></p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2008 09:18:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steven Aitchison</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This article will look at how we can use a method that internet marketers use to test and make changes to their online campaigns to get better results.  We can use the same methods to improve our lives and it’s one which can have a huge impact which I have discovered over the last few [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This article will look at how we  can use a method that internet marketers use to test and make changes to their  online campaigns to get better results.  We  can use the same methods to improve our lives and it’s one which can have a  huge impact which I have discovered over the last few months.</p>
<p align="justify"><strong>What is split testing?<br />
</strong><br />
Putting it simply, imagine you  have a page where you are selling a product you are promoting.  You promote using adwords and social  media.  Okay, so have the sales page and  there is traffic coming to it, you are using this as the base sales page to  measure against.  You then make another  sales page which is exactly the same except this time you change the headline  on that sales page.  You then drive  traffic to the two sales pages and find out which one performs better i.e.  which brings in the most sales or the most signups to your newsletter.  You then take the best performing sales page  and use that as your base sales page.   You then make another sales page and make it exactly the same except you  change a graphic and then find out which ones performs better.  You keep doing this until you have optimised  your sales page.  Yes it takes time but  you will see your sales gradually going up over time.</p>
<p align="justify"><strong>How you can apply this principle to your life </strong></p>
<p align="justify">This is a very powerful way to  change your life for the better and sometimes you can often see results within  a few days.  The truth is if you keep  doing what you’ve always been doing you will always get the same results.  So if you are getting crappy results from  something in your life it’s time to change something that you’re doing in that particular  area.</p>
<p>This might not make much sense to  a lot of people so I will give you an example from my own split testing.</p>
<p><strong>Example 1:<br />
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Rich Schefren has found a  statistic that states that a lot of people spend more time on their emails than  they do with their kids.  This is a quite  sad, but in people’s quest to become independent and start their own business  it’s very true in a lot of cases.  I know  I spend a lot of time with emails, I have around 20 websites, only about 5 that  I really work on and I check my emails as they come in and deal with them there  and then.  The first thing I did was  check how much time I spend on my emails each day, I don’t mean opening them  and reading them I mean opening, reading and acting on them i.e. check out a website  someone has sent me a link to.</p>
<p>The results for 1 week astounded  me.  I spent, in 1 week, 12 hours dealing  and acting on emails – 12 hours! I found that a disgusting statistic.  For that same week I spent 9 hours purely with  my children, that is going out with them alone, or sitting down with them at  dinner, taking them to school, sitting with them for their homework, fooling  around and watching TV.  I have my laptop  downstairs and work all night so my wife and children always have access to me but  that’s not what I am talking about here I am talking spending time away from the  computer and with my children.  Only 9  hours with my children as opposed to 12 hours on my emails.  I did spend more hours with my wife but not  that much.</p>
<p>So, split testing this.  The next week I checked my emails midday and  at 4pm.  I deleted all the emails that  would not drive me forward on my online business quest or bring in more  money.  I kept the personal ones and  dealt with them there and then but all the other ones, if they did not drive my  business forward or did not bring in more money I deleted them.  This meant deleting the next big marketing  ebook promotion, deleting the cool link to a youtube video, deleting the cool  website link that someone sent me, deleting the newsletters I am subscribed to  and deleting the ones that promise me an extra 2 inches.</p>
<p align="justify">The end result:</p>
<p align="justify"><img src="/blog/images/split-testing.jpg" alt="chart on split tsting" width="475" height="284" /></p>
<p align="justify">You’ll see from the chart that I spent  a lot more time with my children and I certainly was a lot happier and felt a  lot better by being away from the computer.   My children, I hope, were a lot happier at spending more time with me.</p>
<p>Now, I have a base measurement I can  work with.  The best result was spending  5 hours on email and 14 hours with my children.   I now work with this and try and find ways to spend even less time on  email, this could be done by hiring a virtual assistant to screen my emails but  I am not at that stage yet but you get what I mean.</p>
<p align="justify"><strong>Example 2:</strong></p>
<p align="justify">I used to have a terrible time  getting my children up for school in the morning.  I would wake them up to 7am, wake them up  again at 7.05am and then start shouting at 07.10am at 07.15am we had fell out,  my children might be in a bad mood, I would be pissed off and by the time  everybody was ready we might be late for leaving for school at 08.10am.</p>
<p align="justify">This went on for months before I tried waking  them up at 06.45am.  I would wake them up  gently, give them a hug and ask if they wanted an extra 5 minutes, I would wait  until they confirmed that they wanted an extra 5 minutes.  I would then give them 10 minutes and wake  them up again.  The second time I told  them that they had had an extra ten minutes and it was time to get up.  The transformation was amazing, no more shouting  in the mornings, no more rushing about and we always get to school on  time.  That extra 15 minutes made a huge  difference to me and my children in the morning.</p>
<p align="justify">With split testing your life you  constantly tweak until you get to a result you are happy with.  Another thing you’ll notice with split  testing your life is that it’s got to be measurable, if it’s not measurable it’s  going to be hard to test and change.</p>
<p align="justify"><strong>Other areas of your life you can split test</strong></p>
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<li><strong>Your work productivity</strong>: Take an area of your work practice and  think about how you might improve it and then start your own split test and  measure the results.</li>
<li> <strong>The amount of time with your partner: </strong>I personally want to spend  more time with my wife but I know a lot of people where that will not a goal.</li>
<li> <strong>Your relationships: </strong>Is spending less time with a particular friend  going to make you feel happier and more energetic or does it sadden you when  you don’t see them – split test it.</li>
<li> <strong>The amount of time spent watching TV</strong> (this is a biggy, you can dramatically  change your life by spending less time in front of the TV)</li>
<li> <strong>How you walk: </strong>It’s true I tried this a few weeks ago.  For 1 day I walked around with my shoulders  slumped, I looked at the ground as I walked, I was slightly stooped over and  didn’t smile a lot.  A little hard to  measure but people’s reactions to me were a lot different, they didn’t speak as  much, they asked me what was wrong, I found myself complaining more and bad  things seemed to happen to me that day.  The  next day I walked head high, chest out, I smiled more.  The result was that people were more  receptive, bad things that happened didn’t phase me and I was a lot more  happier.</li>
<li> <strong>Your diet: </strong>you’ll know I  have done this over the last few months.   The biggest difference to me was cutting out chips (French fries) from  my diet altogether aside from the very occasional MacD’.  Cutting out one thing at a time from your  diet will show you what a difference it could make on your overall weight and  health.  If you do this, cut out just one  thing at a time so you will know if it really is making a difference.</li>
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<p align="justify">I have found this is a great way  to self improvement and can be done on almost any area of your life. I have found  that I am much more conscious about how I can improve my life and where it can  be improved whereas before I might moan about certain areas of my life and how  bad it was.  Now, if I am unhappy about something I try and find a way to improve  it.  The more I split test the more I  think about ways to improve my life and my families life.</p>
<p>A word of warning, I would only  do a few split tests to get you into the swing of things.  Some tests might take a few weeks whilst  others might take a few days or even a few hours depending on what it is.  Once you get into the swing of it you will be  able to do a lot more and your self improvement will take huge leaps.</p>
<p>Some people do this unconsciously  but I hope now that you will see that split testing can be a fantastic self  improvement tool.  If you decide to try  it or already do it let me know your results, it would be good to know how you  get on with this self improvement tool.</p>
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