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		<title>How to become a better person at work</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Mar 2008 23:21:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Karl Staib</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A job is so much more than helping a corporation or a boss earn more money. There are many levels to work that people miss out on because they&#8217;re too caught up in their goals. I don’t advocate blowing off your goals, but I encourage everyone to find other aspects that help them enjoy their [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p align="justify">A  job is so much more than helping a corporation or a boss earn more money. There  are many levels to work that people miss out on because they&#8217;re too caught up  in their goals. I don’t advocate blowing off your goals, but I encourage  everyone to find other aspects that help them enjoy their work and become  better at their job.</p>
<p align="justify">Most  people want to accomplish the tasks that they are assigned, but there are many  ways to get the job done as well as increase your enjoyment at work.</p>
<p align="justify"><strong>Phone Skills</strong></p>
<p align="justify">I  disliked talking on the phone. I thought it was a waste of time, until I began  to improve my skills. When my communication became more fluent I began to enjoy  trying to improve the mood of the person on the other end of the line. I  stopped worrying about my own mistakes and became a better listener. I would  ask them how their family was or how their day was going, trying to make the  conversation more dynamic rather than just asking how many units they were  shipping me, thanks, good bye.</p>
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<p align="justify">Next  time you are about to get on the phone, give yourself a little goal. It may be  to have a clear conversation or to try a joke to get the other person to laugh.  I find self deprecating jokes work really well over the phone.</p>
<p align="justify">You’ll  notice that when you challenge yourself to improve the happiness of the person  on the other end of the line, you’ll be more likely to extract joy from the  situation.</p>
<p align="justify"><strong>Public Speaking</strong></p>
<p align="justify">Speaking  to groups of people used to be as frightening as being trapped in a room full  of snakes. It still makes my heart beat pick up its pace, but I’ve learned to  push past these uncomfortable feelings by volunteering for presentations. I  wanted to improve my speaking skills, and the only way to do that was to jump  in front of a crowd and give it my best.</p>
<p align="justify">If  you have trouble speaking to groups of people, then try looking at it from  different angles. Fear is only one emotion out of many that may occur when  speaking to groups.  You need to stop  labeling this feeling with just one word: “fear.” Try rephrasing it with  “excitement” or “high energy.” You&#8217;ll open yourself up to new ways of defining  your emotions, which should help you get out in front of people.</p>
<p align="justify">I  had an old <a href="http://www.toastmasters.org/">Toastmasters</a> friend tell me, “If you don’t take the  opportunity to speak to groups, then you aren’t giving people all the knowledge  that can help them become better.” A good public speaker is there for himself  as well as the audience. You can learn to improve your communication skills as  well as impart wisdom on to the audience.</p>
<p align="justify"><strong>Knowledge</strong></p>
<p align="justify">I’ve  always been an advocate of continuous learning. It brings fresh ideas to an  organization and lets employees know that the company wants them to succeed.</p>
<p align="justify">Many  companies are also catching on to the dynamic work environment because it keeps  people motivated. When people learn other co-worker&#8217;s jobs, they are able to  learn more about the business, which makes them more valuable and allows them  to satisfy their curiosity. People love to know how co-workers and managers do  their jobs.</p>
<p align="justify">Your  company may not give you much training or prepare you for different jobs, but  you can still extract plenty of information yourself. Don’t be afraid to talk  to a co-worker or a manager who has a set of skills that you admire. Ask them  if you can help them for a few hours. They may see that you care about the  company and it could give you a better chance for promotion. You will probably  be surprised by how many people could use a hand to knock out some of their work.  Knowledge at work is everywhere, if you allow  the curiosity to come out.</p>
<p align="justify">There  are thousands of ways to enjoy a job besides just reaching sales goals or  finishing projects. It’s up to you to implement creative ideas that help you  accomplish your job, but also inject a little enjoyment and improvement into  your work.</p>
<p align="justify">What  is your favorite way to enjoy your job that wouldn’t be in your job  description?</p>
<p align="justify"><strong>About the author </strong></p>
<p align="justify"><em>Karl Staib writes  about unlocking and kicking open the door to working happy at his own blog:<strong> Work Happy Now!</strong> If you enjoyed this article, you may like to </em><a href="http://www.workhappynow.com/feed/">subscribe to his feed</a><em> or read one of his most popular articles, </em><a href="http://www.workhappynow.com/2008/02/20/7-tips-to-process-your-stress-faster/">7  Tips to Process Your Stress Faster</a><em> and </em><a href="http://www.workhappynow.com/2008/03/12/8-mental-boosts-that-never-fail/">8  Mental Boosts that Never Fail</a><em>.</em></p>
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