Life is made up of moments. We classify these in various segments of “time” – but really they are all just moments. And every moment is composed of many tiny segments.
In every single one of these tiny segments, we have the chance, the option to cause great change. In fact, we always do, whether we are conscious of this or not.
As so many of us get wrapped up in various spiritual and personal development ideas and paradigms, sometimes we forget to live out what we learn and actually put it into action.
So what does this all mean to you and I, and every moment of our lives?
This means, that life, learning, evolving and growing is happening right now – as you sit there, as you take a jog, as you choose what you buy, as you hug a loved one, as you criticize the government. In all these moments you ARE changing the world.
But how could this be you may think? I am but one, small and perhaps insignificant person, minding my own business, focusing on my own life.
And that is just it – your life is interconnected to all that is. None of us are small or insignificant. If you are here in this physical existence currently, your thoughts and actions matter just as much as anyone else’s.
Many of us still cannot see how this can be, for surely I and my thoughts, words and actions are not as significant as the president’s, for example. But that is just the thing – they are. For if another person does something which we feel is not of the highest possible vibration for the good of all, you and I have the choice to add to that vibration or alter it to reflect the vibration of love more clearly.
Transformational Connections
When we send out our thoughts, wishes, wants, desires or preferences, we are connecting with the universal matrix of life. We are all interconnected.
We must therefore not be surprised by political turmoil, wars or violence on our planet. As long as there is turmoil within you, wars within yourself and between your closest loved ones, or violent ways of living in any and every area of your life, so too those will exist on a grander scale.
You are the microcosm. What you see in the world around you reflected is the macrocosm. See the connection. Know that you and I are shaping everything that is, was and ever will be.
This is where, every single second has the power to change the world. If 7 billion people made the same decision in 1 second, we would see immediate results. But here is the thing, we do not need everyone on this planet to think or act the same way. In fact, it has been proven that very small numbers of individuals have the potential to create big change. We have seen it throughout history and are seeing it today.
According to Gregg Braden for example, in his book The Spontaneous Healing of Belief, he states that the minimum number of people required for great change is the square root of 1% of the population. That may be astounding, but again, we see this play out in various ways, time and time again.
“Never doubt that a small group of committed people can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.” -Margaret Mead
Transformational Thoughts
Therefore, the next time you are about to put down or criticize someone for example, catch that thought and transform it – transform it to reflect the kind of world you want to see and live in. Transform it to reflect the highest version of you – the vibration of love.
With every thought, you and I are creating our world. This concept is still pushed away by many for two reasons, I think. One, is that we were always lead to believe that some external force(s) are making life and this world the way it is. And two, for many people this kind of responsibility seems overwhelming.
But you and I are creators. Many of us are awakening to this idea and starting to see it more and more clearly in our own personal lives. Now the time has come to expand that idea, and apply it on a broader scale. Not only are you and I creating our own lives, we are all collectively creating the world as we know it.
If you are happy with every single area in your life, and thus the world, then you have nothing to do. Just keep being and doing what you are.
If however, you see areas in your own life or this world where you crave change, be that change. Stop waiting, stop pretending it does not exist and start transforming.
While we may not all be able to live in conscious awareness of all of our thoughts, words or actions 100% of the time yet, every bit of growth helps.
Therefore in this very second, you and I can choose thoughts, words and actions of love and light to change the world or we can stay separated from the connections that bind us all and create the world we see.
What do you choose?
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Hi Evita, welcome to the CYT group of Authors.
I loved this article and thought it was a perfect one for CYT for many reasons. I often say to clients your life can change in a second, it’s all about making a decision, and a decision takes less than a second to make.
It can be a bit of a mind whack trying to get your head around the fact that your thoughts and actions can influence the world.
Thanks again.
Hi Steven
Thank you so much for the warm welcome and for opening up your incredible space here to me as well, as a contributing guest author.
I appreciate your feedback a lot, and similarly feel and live the changes I want to see in the world, through my own life and actions.
Everything that I think, say and do today, has taken on a deeper meaning, as I realize the power we each hold in how we shape our world. You are so right, it can be a big and even overwhelming realization to embrace or simply just realize, how much influence each of us have, but I encourage each person to rise to their highest version of themselves, and welcome that realization, and watch their life, and their world transform right before their eyes….
I look forward to interacting with your readers, many thanks again
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Hi Evita
Recently I have been thinking about the choices I have made in the past and the impact they have had on my life. Many of those choices I made in an instant and without much thought and the repercussion still ripple through my life.
I believe that “I am the cause and the solution” for what happens in my life. Taking complete responsibility has been good for me. I am not sure about the universal matrix of life but I do like to think that at someone level we do have a connection – otherwise the world would be a very isolated place.
Very interesting post
Hello Marion
Wonderful to “meet you” and thank you for sharing your thoughts on this topic here.
I think we can all relate on various levels as to some of the things we said or did in past moments, and the effects those had on us, when things were done without a greater conscious awareness.
The best part about that however is, that nothing is a mistake. I truly stand by that. Every moment brought us to where we are today, and every present moment gives us the chance to look at things and approach things in a new way. There is a greater purpose for it all. That is not meant to excuse our past actions, but meant for us to move through them in a peace-filled way, to grow in the now, and evolve our being today as we choose to add positive energy to the collective.
Much love to you along your continued journey!
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Evita, I’m sending you a virtual standing ovation for this post! This is a concept that I’ve been trying to wrap by mind around for some time now…our thoughts truly do have such tremendous power in our lives. Power, that if harnessed, can be used to create positive changes in our lives…and as you have pointed out…in the world! However, when we’re unaware of the power of our thoughts and let them run amok, they can wreak havoc in our lives and drive us toward destructive behaviors.
One of my favorite quotes is from Buddha, who said: “Our lives are the creation of our minds.” It’s even bigger than that though… as you so eloquently pointed out, “With every thought, you and I are creating our world.” I really appreciate the sense of responsibility and accountability this idea brings. My negative thoughts not only poison me, but they have a ripple effect that reaches out to everyone I interact with as well. On the other hand, when I plant positive thoughts in my mind, they too will grow and hopefully spread out into the world to take root.
Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts and stirring mine!
Hi Adrienne
I am so touched and humbled by your comment – thank you!!!
I love the quote you included from Buddha, and yes, our thoughts indeed have such tremendous power. I think this is the perfect time on our planet to really start realizing that, and welcome that accountability.
Many may fear it at first, as it can be overwhelming, but when we really allow ourselves to open up to this concept, it is so empowering for our lives and the potential it holds for this planet!
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Authenticity Resonates Deeply and shakes the world Up in the process of settling for Nothing. True Living is often Un-Settling as we pick up our roots and blow with the wind. We are always in the right place at the right time as the world is in the process of unwinding its self on multi-dimensional levels. What looks like turmoil and chaos is in reality a collective sigh of intensive release.
Evita, your article is wonderful and illustrates that no matter what we say or do or feel…..we are connected to every other action being played out in the universe. There are no ordinary moments where for every action there are countless reactions. When one pulls the string on the web, everyone else gets tugged and goes for a ride. But, when we cut our strings to certain affiliates, there is then less tension impressed upon certain frequency of operation, which then allows people to see themselves better. Pressure has been alleviated and a new perceived you emerges from the un-entanglement. With every attachment that is broken, a higher frequency of resonance is attained.
One person truly can change the world, and its time to take a good look in the mirror, and to see ourselves in all that we focus upon, and to that which we are attentive to. We can stop feeding the waves of resistance and begin propagating waves that will allow all individuals to touch Infinity Its Self.
Hello 2-b
Thank you so very much for your feedback, comment and wonderful additions and insights regarding this topic.
If we can all just pay attention to what we give our focus to daily, and assess how that is impacting our lives and our world, we would be living in a new world instantly.
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This is a wonderful article. It makes me realize that everyone is interconnected, and that there are many levels of influence in our lives. We are influenced by those intimately connected to us, such as friends, and family, as well as by those we just acquaintances with. Even further, we are influences by the grander culture around us. All this impacts us and we impact it. This is a very powerful realization that we also impact this larger macrocosm and play a role in the way the world can be. I guess in this sense, one person can make a difference. Thanks!
Hi Joe
Yes, one person – each and every one of us can and is making a difference. At first, and to some it may not be that obvious at first, but the changes one sees in their own personal life very quickly give all the proof we need, that not only do we create our own reality, we also create the world around us.
Thank you for your comment and for participating in this topic.
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Hello Evita. I truly love your words. So much of what you said here resonates with me. I believe, with every bone in my body, that we are ALL significant. Anyone who feels powerless or unimportant needs only to awaken and see themselves as Source/God sees us. We all have more value than we may ever know.
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Hello Nea
Thank you so much – that means so much to hear that these words resonated so well with you.
And yes, you hit it right on – we DO have so much more value, so much, more than many of us can realize or perhaps will ever know – at least while in the physical experience.
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Evita,
How beautifully articulated – that Love/one person can make such a difference. After 40 yrs on this planet I am only starting to scratch at the surface of such concepts, challenging the ‘norm’, integrating/practising new ways. So much to undo, yet the realization is indeed powerful and I found reading this article a great reminder to keep personal belief strong in that beautiful attainment of positive transformation and have enjoyed your encouraging wisdom as I continue to travel towards that highest version of me.
Annette
Hello Annette,
It is with great pleasure that I hear about your personal journey of self-discovery and personal evolution.
When I first encountered my own personal awakening, I was only about 25, and even then, felt there was so much to undo. We are conditioned into so many belief systems, so many patterns, that just don’t serve us.
So today, more and more of us are awakening out of a long slumber, and remembering our magnificence – our potential and who we really are.
Thank you for your beautiful comment!
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Evita,
This is such a simple, yet powerful message. And it is written in such a clear and gently challenging way.
I fully agree with your perspective – we are creating in every moment, but are we creating for the better or the worse? If we only knew how powerful we truly are.
I love this idea: “…the minimum number of people required for great change is the square root of 1% of the population.” Somehow, I just love getting specific! It reminds of the idea of the 100th monkey from a number of years ago.
Thank you, Evita.
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Hi Sandra,
Thank you so much Sandra for stopping in to join in the conversation, and it was truly my pleasure to share this. It is wonderful to hear that the ideas above resonated with you, and I really appreciate the feedback you gave me. I do like to challenge people, but not in a confrontational way – so I am glad it came across that way.
And yes, pretty incredible how amazingly small numbers, can create huge change.
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“Never doubt that a small group of committed people can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.” -Margaret Mead
This is my quote for the year. Matter of fact my whole life. If you have a group of people committed to achieve something, you will get the results quicker than one person. But it take s a group , but someone it takes just one person, to see an injustice and change it. Will you be that person?
MLK saw it!
JFK saw it!
Gandhi saw it!
Lennon saw it!
Will you?
Hi Jonathan
Awesome to hear that those words hold a special meaning for you. I love them as well, and find them to be very true!
There are many amazing beings who have lead the way, and today we can all choose to be leaders. We do not need to be elected or any kind of fame. We can be leaders for ourselves and live our personal truths based on light and love.
And great question to end off with as well – thank you!
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Evita,
We are all connected. This is something I believe very deeply. And in that, what I choose to do/say/be – that does make a difference. Is that a difference toward my higher self, or away from it? Or – as you so beautifully said – toward a vibration of love.
Everything that we do (even in our non-doing) has an effect. Everything.
Your words today resonate deeply, and hold much meaning for me. I’m reminded of a quote by Viktor Frankl:
“Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.”
Each moment of our lives…we choose our response…
And in that, we change the world…whether we believe that or not…
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Hi Lance
A wonderful pleasure to see you here and sharing in these words from me.
I love, just love the quote you included from Victor Frankl – yes, exactly that space – and in that space we each have the power to choose towards creating the world we want to see and be a part of, or a world which we fear, condemn and suffer in.
Thank you for your comment!
Evita recently posted..Embrace Fear to Transform Your Life
Thanks Evita. Surely we are all connected whether we realize it or not, and our actions and thoughts whether large or small in our eyes do have great impact as you say. We’re also one with whatever is back of this “visible” universe, unavoidably so, and the same principle holds true there. We’re not so insignificant by a long shot as we think.
It’s a sadly over-used and mis-used word. But if I express Love into this little sliver of time we call a moment I’m aligning myself with the only true power there is anywhere — I’m playing my part in helping the spread of authentic happiness and peace in the world.
Thanks again Evita.
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Hello Christopher
Thank you for your comment and adding your wonderful insights to this discussion.
And I love how you put it “I’m playing my part in helping the spread of authentic happiness and peace in the world.” Very, very beautiful and true…. we can all take that moment of love… it is but a choice.
It starts with just one moment like that perhaps today, and can grow to become a regular thing in our lives in no time!
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“Therefore, the next time you are about to put down or criticize someone for example, catch that thought and transform it – transform it to reflect the kind of world you want to see and live in. Transform it to reflect the highest version of you – the vibration of love.”
Very good Evita. I believe love is an action, more so than an emotion. What better way to love someone than to show our respect for them.
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Hi Colleen
Beautifully put. When we respect someone, I believe we are showing them our love on one of the highest levels.
Thank you for stopping by and adding to our discussion here
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Evita, thank you for your article. There is such empowerment in understanding the power behind our thoughts and attitudes. The question is, as you said, what are we choosing, moment by moment? Thanks to you and others, I have learned, when feeling stressed, overwhelmed, or anxious, to flip it around, and ask myself, What am I grateful for? What’s going right? What am I enjoying right now?
We are thinking all the time: why not create thoughts that bring peace, hope, and courage?
Finally, your article illustrates the Law of Correspondence: As without, so within; as within, so without.
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Hi Steve,
A pleasure to meet you and hear your thoughts about the Universal connections we all have to each other.
Thank you also for mentioning the Law of Correspondence. The Universal laws can help us so much in understanding how and why things are and work out as they do.
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Hi Evita,
I too believe that all minds are localized versions of One Mind — Universal Mind. All minds mingle as one complete whole field of consciousness. Because we are plugged in — our mind is an operating center of this one Universal Mind. This is what has our thought sovereign, and our material subservient. Acknowledging the awesome power of the ‘moment’ gives us supreme insight into our unlimited nature.
Hi Rob!
It is so good to hear your thoughts on this Rob. I love the way you see the personal vs Universal connection.
Thank you for your visit and comment
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Nice piece Evita.
“You and I are creators.”
This one line summed it all up for me. It reminds me that I have a choice as a creator to create sh*t or sugar with every decision I make, to put it bluntly. Also by acknowledging oneself as a creator you are reminded to assume responsibility and accountability as opposed to acting as though everything is out of one’s control.
Hi Evita! I’m with you on how powerful our thoughts ares. Our interconnectedness creates a beautiful ripple effect. As we monitor our thoughts we consciously affect our world and others around us benefit from this. Kindness, like smiles, is contagious. If we can choose, why not choose a loving world, right?
Loving blessings!
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Hi Andrea
Lovely to hear from you here and thank you for sharing your thoughts about this topic as well
May we indeed choose love more openly, more freely as we continue through on our own personal journeys and add to the collective oneness of the Universe!
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This is a very inspiring article!
I agree that we do have the power to change the world, but only if we want to. Instead of mulling over spilled milk, why not take an action to make things better. If something does not go as planned, do not sulk in the corner and put blame in other people. We should learn to take control, that’s the only way we can make a difference and be happy.
Allow me to share with you 7 Stepping Stones to a Life of Joy. Hope this inspires others out there who are thinking of making a difference.
Hi Kristine,
Thank you for your feedback! And for adding in your own empowering message to this discussion!
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I feel so great, when I looked at all those out there who is so committed to change their life. Currently I am in the process of changing my every single thoughts to a positive one and I am having a little fun of drifting out of my personal goal. But trust me I have the burning desire in me to be successful when I look at those people who really badly want to be successful. The only part is commitment. I need to work on it often to get my goals done on time. God bless.
Hello Dhines,
That is wonderful and I wish you all the best along your journey! I am sure your happiness, inner peace and love for life is increasing right before your eyes, as you commit yourself to tapping into a positive space.
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Interesting thoughts and nice words, Evita! Thanks for sharing! I’ve enjoyed it!
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Hello Roman
It is a pleasure to hear your feedback Roman – thank you!
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See the connection. Know that you and I are shaping everything that is, was and ever will be.
This is so powerful. I know this but today it just went a little deeper into my brain.
Also Marianne Williamson said recently that we know need more people on board to change the world. We only need to harness the energy of the people who are ready! Well let’s get going! Thanks Evita. I almost missed you over here;) xo
Hi Tess!
Great to see you here Tess and thanks for taking the time to read this article from me as well
I agree Tess, no time like the present to live up to our highest potential, and create the world we want to see, rooted in love and peace!
Hi Evita,
Beautiful post with a beautiful message! We all have the power and ability to change the world and to make it a better place. Each action that we engage in has the power to make things better or to make things worse.
Every second is a chance to start fresh and to spread love.
Hi Nadia,
Thank you so much Nadia! Awesome to hear your insights about this too!
Evita, well written article. I liked that you broke it down to the second. You can’t get any simpler than deciding to do something in a second. It eliminates the complexity of trying to think of something over a long period of time. Just do it and in that second the change happens.
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Hi Jeremy,
Thanks so much Jeremy for stopping by, and your feedback.
Change is indeed possible in every second of our lives, and I like that you mentioned not having to think about it – feeling consciously normally brings much better outcomes then long trains of thought.
Dear Evita,
I find it fascinating that modern physics is reaching the same conclusion sages have for thousands of years – we are indeed interconnected with one another and the entire universe. How amazing is that!
I am awed by the fact that we get to be in our unique bodies and having an opportunity to create our life. I believe we do largely create our reality by our thoughts and emotions.
And that’s where the moment enters. I often say we fantasize a future that is perfect when the right person, job, situation, comes along. And we miss the boat.
A great life is created by a series of great moments. If we focus on negatives throughout our day, guess what, our life isn’t going to feel very good!
I remind myself to experience love throughout my day, by giving love. The greatest challenge is to face and acknowledge the moments I’m repulsed by something or someone.
How to transform THAT into love and compassion. My sincere longing is to grow in love and compassion.
Thanks for reminding us to be in the moment.
Lauren
Hello Lauren,
It is indeed amazing, and I think on many levels in was necessary to be this way. Too many people see science as the new “god” – as if, if science says it, then it must be true…. when millions of ancient people’s have been living out all this many, many years before we can even fathom.
And I totally agree, a great life is created by the moments.
Thank you for your comment and may you continue growing in love and compassion
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I have a draft post written in my notebook on this very subject. So often people think change for the better is a long-term pursuit, whicle change for the worst can “happen in an instant.” Time to challenge that logic. I’m glad you did! Now, I only wish my draft post was a well written as yours!!
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Hi Happiness and Wisdom
That is awesome to hear – and goes perfectly along the same lines of how we are all able to tap into the collective consciousness, that unites us all.
So often people think or create the same exact things completely in an isolated manner – and that is wonderful as it simply shows that we are all connected and tapping into that Universal matrix.
Thank you for your comment.
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WOW!! This is one powerful post. Just brilliant, off the charts brilliant. I love this kind of thing and know it as truth for me. You wrote: “…as you sit there, as you take a jog, as you choose what you buy, as you hug a loved one, as you criticize the government. In all these moments you ARE changing the world.” That is so powerful. and what is so amazing, I was just responding to your astounding comment on my blog post, and I wrote this in response to your comment (It’s only part of my response): “…Dearest Evita, I am sitting here with tears on my face. You have given me a great gift. One that I will always treasure. It means far more than you know. You’ve given me Love. In doing so you soothe, heal, transform me, yourself, and the world, Even the Stars shine brighter….” What you put out changed me and everything around me, and you and everything around you. We are all so connected.
And I love this part too: “Therefore, the next time you are about to put down or criticize someone for example, catch that thought and transform it – transform it to reflect the kind of world you want to see and live in. Transform it to reflect the highest version of you…”
Just an amazing post Evita. So good to see you writing like this. It confirms the rest of my response to your comment.
Much love,
Robin
Hello Robin,
What a gift to see you here, reading and sharing in my words! Your presence and energy always fill me with such joy – that I thank you deeply for that gift alone!
I write these words above Robin, as I feel them and live them. Every choice in my life today is geared toward reflecting love – from what I buy, to what I eat, to how I think and interact with others.
I am not waiting, I am being the change I want to see and it feels amazing!!!!
Love to you always
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What a lovely post. ‘We were always lead to believe that some external force(s) are making life and this world the way it is’ is frightening to me. I know it is true but the thought that we have no control seems so hard to grasp. I agree that we are in complete control, we control our thoughts, destinies, thoughts and contribution to the wider community.
Those moment to moment thoughts, creating moment to moment actions are more powerful than we will ever realise.
Hello Kate,
Thanks for your comment, and I share your sentiments. I think it is one of the scariest things to feel and live as if someone else is controlling our life. Sure, there is such a thing as the divine and delicate balance and flow of all things, but no matter what situation or experience we are presented with – WE always choose how WE are going to act in that moment.
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Evita, this is a really remarkable post! Thank you for sharing it with us. It really is so true that we have much more power than we give ourselves credit for – until we realize the power that we have of course!
By taking control of our thoughts, and therefore beliefs, we have the power to change our own lives. But it so much more powerful that we can influence those around us and have such an unseen widespread impact on people all around.
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Hi Stacy
Thank you so much Stacy!
We really are incredible and powerful beings – and it is so incredible to see more and more of us awakening to this realization and living out the love that we are, which has the power to change our lives, and our world instantly!
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Evita- Love your writing and insights on choice. As you mention, the now is a moment in time that has significance. I believe that transformation, which is different than change, can occur when one ‘operates’ from a new and different place. Here’s a challenge for all to embrace: Operate from compassion (no judgment), notice how you feel, and behave in alignment with your present state in that moment, then in the next moment, and then operate from there throughout your day. Notice how you experience the world differently!
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Hi Tom
Thank you so much Tom for your kind feedback.
Thank you also for pointing out the difference between transformation and change – I think that is a very important point to make. As, well, thanks for adding the awesome challenge for us all!
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“Never doubt that a small group of committed people can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.” -Margaret Mead
Indeed. Jesus and his apostles changed the course of human history. Even our dating system is taken from his birth date. 11 out of the 12 of these dedicated men were killed for their faith yet we have a changed world because of them. Thank you for the reminder that commitment can create great change.
I like this: “If however, you see areas in your own life or this world where you crave change, be that change. Stop waiting, stop pretending it does not exist and start transforming.”
I have had some problems with a neighbour recently. As I have been working hard to change my attitude I have had to decide to be more loving (even if the issue does need dealing with). That has transformed me, and eventually may transform the situation. Even if it does not I am being the change I want to see in the world.
Nice post, thanks.
Doug
Hi Doug
That you for your moving comment. I applaud you for taking the action you have with regards to your neighbour. People often think they have to “prove something”, or “take revenge” or “teach the person a lesson”, etc…. etc… but that truly gets us nowhere. Even though our Egos may rejoice temporarily, in the long run it results in pain for all those involved, and moves the vibration of the world away from love.
Wishing you courage and patience as you look within your soul and always live out the love that you are!
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