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Jonathan Beebe is the author of Develop Minds, a personal development blog focused on providing information on how to increase your consciousness, your intelligence, and the best ways of significantly improving your life by helping you make the most out of it.
Motivation is something that can either make or break your aspirations, and I notice that when my personal sense of motivation is high, my current “status” is right up there with it. With that realization, I started analyzing the times when I was feeling motivated, and the times where I was in need of some, and managed to find at least six main things that contribute to my motivation. After some thought I realized, the things that contribute my motivation would, for the most part, apply to everyone.
Before I get into those six things, however, it’s important to know beforehand the things that could put your motivation in a slump, so you can avoid them as you follow my tips on staying motivated:
Discouragement: This is probably the number one motivation killer. When something negative happens, or you pick up on cues that cause you to feel discouraged, immediately your motivation begins to be leeched away as if a vampire came up and began sucking it right out of you. The best thing to do before you get started on a new venture is to simply affirm to yourself that you won’t allow yourself to get discouraged, no matter how bleak things begin to look.
Lack of Focus: When you have a billion different things on your mind due to lack of focus, it’s hard to stay motivated about… well… whatever it is you’re trying to stay motivated with. The best thing to do is to get your productivity in order, so you have allotted time for each of the different things you need to be dealing with… this will help you to focus on the task at hand and leave room in your mind for motivation.
Pessimism: If you’re the type of person to see the bad in everything, and expect the worst so that you can be happy with whatever comes along, you’re really setting yourself up for failure. How in the world can you stay motivated when you’re expecting everything to fall apart around you? Exercise optimism, and when things don’t go your way, instead of feeling like a fool, exercise the following six tips to keep yourself motivated…
Optimize Your Energy
If your running low on “fuel”, it’s hard to be motivated by anything, let alone stay motivated. When you’re feeling ill, just the thought of getting up to do simple tasks such as going outside to check the mail feels like a major leap. So the first thing you should do to keep your motivation high is to optimize your energy.
My number one way to remain energetic is to maintain a healthy sleeping cycle. I used to have extremely unstable sleeping habits. Some nights I’d be up nearly til morning, finally go to sleep when I couldn’t hang on anymore, wake up in the afternoon, and the cycle continued until it seemed as though I was doing night shift one half of the month, and day shift the second half. During this time, my energy was at an all-time low, I’d take long naps almost everyday, and as a result, many of my days ended up being extremely short.
Once I started going to bed at a decent time, whenever I felt tired, and set my alarm to wake me up nice and early every morning. Now my energy is at an all-time high, and I don’t even get tired in the mid-afternoon which is when I’ve always had a tendency of getting sleeping and wanting a nap.
Of course, other factors can contribute to your energy such as your eating habits, how much you are hydrating, your physical fitness, and even your morale, which I’ll get into next.
Optimize Your Mood
Your current mood and current level of happiness plays a huge role in staying motivated. Think back to the last time you were in a horrible mood. It probably took an enormous amount of strength to get yourself to want to do anything, much less doing meaningful things that you’d ideally want to stay motivated with.
The best way to keep your mood high is to address the things that stress you out, learn how to overcome your habits of worrying, and start managing your time more effectively. Normally bad moods are caused by being exposed to uncomfortable, or less than ideal situations that you feel like you have no choice but to go through.
For example, those who are overly grumpy in the morning probably don’t have a very relaxing morning routine. It’s most likely either very hectic, stressful, and full of responsibilities that they don’t feel like taking care of right when they wake up… as a result, their mood suffers.
Write Down Your Motives
If you have a good idea beforehand of exactly why you’re doing something, it makes it easier to stay motivated, so be sure to write your reasons down. When you are in a slump that’s making it hard to stay motivated, remind yourself exactly why you’re doing what you’re doing, and where it’s going to get you. This is the time to discard any pessimism. Don’t tell yourself all the reasons why you might fail, or why this and that’s not going to work out.
Remind yourself all the reasons you gave yourself when you began working towards the thing you’re trying to achieve. Think of new things and add to your “list” as time goes on.
Find Your Inspiration
When you first start out on a new venture, before you begin your course of action, you most likely had an initial source of motivation. Often it’s inspiration from an external source. For example, before I started writing my own blog, I looked at other bloggers who started with nothing and grew a huge subscriber base. I used that as inspiration, reminding myself that if they can do it, there’s no reason why I can’t too. I used the success of others to help fuel my motivation, and to this day, I still do.
Set Milestones and Reward Yourself
Define specific milestones, or “checkpoints” on your new venture, and reward yourself for reaching them. If it’s a big task at hand, this will help you to get through it all by lightening your overall load into manageable “pieces”. Imagine if you were supposed to write 31 essays. It would be pretty hard to do them all at once, but the task becomes much easier if they were spread out over the course of a month (1 per day). In the end you’d still have 31 essays completed, but the work load would have been much lighter and easy to manage.
Only you can know exactly how to reward yourself, but just make sure it’s something you wouldn’t allow yourself to take part in unless you’ve reached a milestone.
Take Action Regularly
Sometimes when you’re feeling lazy and unmotivated, the best way to get going is to well… just get going! Force yourself to take action, and while it may be hard at first, it shouldn’t take too long for your brain to get into the right “gear” with what you’re doing, and your motivation should pick up at some point along the way. So if all else fails, just do and do some more, and eventually after repeating this process your mind will convince itself that it’s just easier to be motivated from the start.
Make motivation a habit.
Once I discovered all the things I just mentioned, I began applying them to my life immediately. Now, I rarely ever experience feelings of discouragement, lack of focus, and I seem to be filled with positivity most of the time. Motivation seems to come fairly easy now, and I can’t say it would be that way for me had I not made a conscious effort to make the six things I mentioned part of my daily routine.
My suggestion is that you try it out, see if it works for you, and modify as needed for your own personal needs. I challenge you to monitor the factors that contribute to your own motivation levels and experiment with different things. Eventually you’ll have the perfect motivation “plan” that’s tailored specifically to fit your needs alone.
Good luck, and stay motivated!










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Jonathan, just wanted to welcome you to the CYT authors club
and what a great post to start with.
I think it can be difficult staying motivated all the time but with practice you can become much better at keeping your motivation levels high. It’s like anything else, the more you practice the better you get.
Great stuff Jonathan, thanks for writing for CYT.
Thank you very much for your great comments, and for the opportunity to write for your blog! I also agree that with practice, it becomes easier to stay motivated… and as it turns out, lots of people don’t like practice so there’s quite a bit of unmotivated folks out there!
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“Discouragement: This is probably the number one motivation killer. ” Sooo true. Which is why a lot of people are good starters and bad enders. It’s low tolerance to frustration, to failure, to not getting what you want, when you want, the way you want God damn it
Eduard
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I like how you said “…people are good starters and bad enders” because while I’ve always seen that, I couldn’t find words that matched it better than that. And honestly, I think we’re all guilty of it to a certain extent, especially myself; however, it’s the ability to get better and better as you go without giving up is what really matters.
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i am always pessimistic. In the past , I have tried your mothods, and it hasnt gotten me very far. As I type this comment to you, i am pessimictic at work, very passive aggressive and depressed. How would you help me get out of this slump that has been going on since the beginning of the year
While I don’t know the exact details of your situation, what I’ll say right now is try the methods I described each for 21 days straight (to form a habit), and be strict on yourself about it–if you’re really concerned about your problem you’ll give it a shot–and see where you’re at from there. If you’re depressed, tried everything (including trying your best to STAY positive), then it could be a medical issue (clinical deperession perhaps?).
My wife had an unfortunate miscarriage last year but was still affected with a mild case of post-partum depression. Before we took her to the doctor, she was very confused as to what was going on. She felt unmotivated and down all the time and didn’t know how to put a stop to it. We finally took her to the doctor and he said it was completely normal. He prescribed some anti-depressants for a few months and everything went back to normal.
Best of luck!
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The thing to do when there is a lack of motivation I have found is to gain perspective. What I mean by this is to look at people that are worse off than you that make an effort every day.
For me my brother-in-law has Parkinsons, yet everyday he gets up and goes to work, he struggles to walk and do even the simplest of tasks. He remains motivated in his mind even though his situation will never change, actually it will only get worse, yet everyday he has a smile and a positive outlook on life.
I think we all need a wake up call from time to time.
Great advice Martyn! I didn’t even include that in my article, but perspective can affect your motivation a lot. I really admire those like your brother-in-law who suffer from hardships yet manage to be more motivated and happier than the general public. I think we can all learn from that.
Thanks again, Martyn.
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Thanks Jonathan, and thanks Steven for hosting this excellent post.
Sustained motivation is incredibly useful and certainly something I pay close attention to in myself and the people around me.
I would add to this discussion by highlighting the importance of encouraging and supporting others as a way of building and sustaining your own motivation.
For example, a large factor in my online strategy (as it is off-line) is to encourage and inspire followers on Twitter and bloggers in specific and tangible ways – not generic, one-size-fits-all motherhood, feel-good statements like “Have a great day everyone.”
It goes two ways, and so my day is now punctuated with a generous and highly motivating stream of uplifting and supportive comments from new and longer-term friends who know what projects I’m working on and what’s important to me.
It’s a real boost that makes a huge difference in my day.
Best to you both, Robin

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Hi Robin, thanks for the great comments you made! That’s a good addition to the list that once again was not included in my list of ways to stay motivated, so great job! I can think back to times when I’m encouraging others and it does give me my own sense of motivation…
In fact, writing about personal development related topics is a way of encouraging others, and when I make a post or write an article that impacts someone positively, it serves as a great motivator so I can see exactly where you’re coming from!
Thanks again…
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It’s so difficult to stay motivated. I have started sleeping better (regular pattern) and also exercising frequently, and doing these have increased my ability to stay motivated in other areas of my life.
I am thinking about joining a gym because if I am committed to paying $20 a week for membership that can be a push factor for me to exercise more. Also, if I exercise more I will feel a sense of accomplishment and self-pride and I predict that I will have more motivation in other areas of my life as well (eg. working hard at University).
That’s great, Mia! Just be sure to stick to a regular routine when you go to the gym, or you’ll be surprised at how even THAT can escape you… once you get used to paying the $20 per month.
And you’re absolutely right. Accomplishments serve as great sources of motivation. In fact, if you can continue moving forward, your motivation will continue to fuel your accomplishments, and so on…
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I just wanted to tell you Thank you for this great post, I think this is not the steps to be just motivated, but the road map to success in anything you want to do in your life, and to feel happy and content about yourself while achieving that success
I can testify to the importance of having a healthy sleep cycle, I am still trying to get there, but when I do have a good overnight sleep, I feel that my mind is pretty clear that I can build in it any type of thoughts I want either negative or positive, lacking sleep makes anything seems 10 times harder for me.
Thank you again for this great post
Thanks for the compliments Mohamed! I completely agree everything seems 10x harder when I’m tired, or when my sleeping habits are poor. Ever since I’ve been waking up early in the morning, I’ve not only had more energy and don’t feel the need to take afternoon naps, but my daily mood has improved as a whole as well.
Thanks for your comments.
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Hi Jonathan. Great post. I like to start my day by reading something positive and today your post was perfect. I particularly liked your idea of setting milestones. I know sometimes I can feel overwhelmed by all I need to do, but if I break it down into doing one task a day, that by the time I finish the first task I feel so good that I just keep going and often end up completing more than I set out to do. I think it goes back to Newton’s law “An object in motion tends to remain in motion and an object at rest tends to remain at rest” . I will check out some of your other posts to start my day tommorrow. Take care….
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I see that you mentioned sleep was the most important part of staying motivated. I am a person that has had trouble maintaining a normal sleep cycle for all my life and notice that it does drastically take away from how much one can achieve in a given day. Great post!
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Jonathan,
As Steven said, what a great post to start with! First I didn’t even notice in the author box that this article wasn’t written by him, but your style is a little bit different so it was impossible for me not to notice! I really like how you structured this article, and appreciate your work with your 31 days post marathon. I also tried something similar lately, but I wasn’t able to provide high quality along with such a high quantity of writing.
I consider being motivated is very important in life, and I think one of the keys to be able to stay motivated is finding something that actually motivates you. However, we have to realize that there are moments in our life when we’re just “down”, and also have to accept those. I liked your writing.
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Hi Zoli,
Thanks a lot for the great comments, I’ll definitely have to check out your blog. I’m very grateful to hear that you took a look at my 31 day series I’ve been working on this month.
I agree that we’ll all have “down” moments from time to time, in fact, it’s those moments that truly make the good times great!
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Those are some great motivation tips. Sometimes it not so easy to remember to do things right though, when you are feeling put upon and worn out though.
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