Crossing The Lines

by Steven Aitchison on November 21, 2009 · 29 comments

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Author: Steven Aitchison (407 Articles)

I am the owner of this blog. I am a Freelance Writer and write about personal development with my passions being belief formation, thoughts, perceptions and emotions. My number 1 priority is my family, and after that my aim is to help as many people as I can around the world to live their dream.

How do we get from where we are now to where we want to be? We have to ‘Cross The Lines’.

The line is an imaginary line which is the most powerful barrier we can overcome to realising the potential we have in everything we do.

Some lines are crossed very easily. For example: getting out of bed in the morning to go to work each day is a line we have to cross. If we don’t cross that line there will be consequences, we might eventually get the sack from our work which means no mortgage payments, no food on the table, no happy family. These lines are called D-Level lines.

A-D Level Lines

D-Level Lines – are lines that have to be crossed and have been crossed on many occasions. We may not like it, we still find it mentally difficult but the pain of not crossing them is more painful than the pain of crossing them. The D-Level and C-Level lines are the lines a lot of people are stuck between right now in their lives.

C-Level Lines – This line represents a new way of thinking and a new found confidence in oneself and one’s abilities. It’s a shift in your belief pattern.

For example: Imagine you are going for a promotion at work. You feel at ease in-between D – C-Level and suddenly you start to believe that you could do a better job than the current manager you have. You start to think about the possibility of being a manager. Pretty soon you start to believe you really have the ability to be a manager. Your thoughts start to match what you see in your minds eye and your whole belief system has been changed. You cross the C-Level line and interview for the managers position a few times and eventually get it. You have now stepped over to stand in-between the C – B-Level Line

B-Level Lines – This line represents a complete confidence in yourself and your abilities to do anything in life. You have most things you want in life including a happy family, friends, money, success and you are completely content with life. You do not need to have all the trappings of a financially successful life to have crossed the B-Level Line as it is a psychological state rather than a materialistic outlook. However, most people gauge their success on what they have in life and how psychologically, spiritually and mentally confident they are.

The only reason to cross the A-Level line is for spiritual reasons and it is a level of personal development that is attained naturally rather than a line that is raced toward.

A-Level Lines – This is what Maslow would have called self actualization and it is the line that will be crossed when we no longer need, nor desire the material things in life and we turn our awareness inwards and outwards at the same time.

Crossing this line is not a goal: it is a level of personal development.

Sub-D Line

The sub D Line is where a lot of people reside. These are the people who lack motivation, lack the will to help themselves or other people and have been in this state for a long time.

I am not talking about people who have an illness or disability of some kind, or who have lost their jobs due to redundancy or illness etc I am talking about the people who have the mentality that the world owes them something due to the fact that they are living and breathing. More than likely these people will be aged 30+ and will have never had a job in their life and have lived of benefits all their life and expect handouts for the rest of it. It is a case of take, take, take without ever giving anything back in return.

I say aged 30+ as we tend to make a mental shift in our late 20s, our whole perspective on life shifts somehow and we can expect to contribute more to the world.

Crossing the lines

Crossing the lines is something I discuss, in much more detail, in my new book ‘Crossing The Lines’, which will be due out at the end of January 2010.

In it’s very basic form we can cross the lines by first becoming the state we want to reach in life. There is no secret here, but you may have heard the details of what to do in a fragmented form, meaning you have only been given part of the blueprint.

To cross a line, any of them, you have to be on the other side of the line in your mind before you can actually cross over to it. This means working on your beliefs, values, principles, emotions and state of mind.

It can be just as hard to cross from the sub-D line to the D-Level line as it is crossing from the C-Level Line to the B-Level Line, everybody will be different.

Looking at your beliefs – If you don’t believe you can really cross the line, you never will.

Looking at your emotions – Your emotions are extremely important in this and if you can get them attuned to where you want to go you will have a much greater chance of success.

Looking at your values – If your values are out of alignment with the new state you are trying to reach you will not get there either. For example if you want to reach the state of being wealthy and you have been told all your life that wealth is bad, it’s dirty money etc you will not reach your desired state.

Looking at your state of mind – This is about having a confident consciousness whereby everything comes together in your mind in preparation for crossing the lines.

I hope this has given some food for thought and I will be sending out more information and videos over the coming weeks about ‘Crossing The Lines’

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1 Eren Mckay November 21, 2009 at 8:22 pm

Steve,
This is very true and most people won’t even comprehend the depth of it. Many people tell us that we need to keep pushing to achieve something so that when we achive that”something” we will somehow be happy.
This thinking is conditioning our happiness to outward circumstances instead do deciding to be happy no matter what. Finding joy before the “so called” outward success is indeed the true state of happiness.
Most live in the D – level line and grumble about it.
I spend quite a lot of time feeding my soul because that is where the energy comes from to do anything in life.
Blessings,
Eren
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2 Steven Aitchison November 22, 2009 at 2:01 pm

Hi Eren, you’re absolutely right it is about finding inner joy before the outer success comes, that’s a great way of putting it.

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3 Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills November 21, 2009 at 9:20 pm

This is a great analogy Steve. I found myself thinking that we might asses our own position (which lines we are between) differently then an observer would. Does the sub-D resident see himself as such, or would he position himself otherwise? Progress often depends on the ability to make an honest and accurate self-evaluation.
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4 Steven Aitchison November 23, 2009 at 6:42 am

Hi Jonathan. Without a doubt we would assess ourselves differently from what others would, it’s our reality so we will know what lines we have crossed. The sub-D resident has all but given up on himself despite offers of help from various sources, it needs a flash of ’seeing the truth’ to drive it home that change is necessary and to re-evaluate his position in life.

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5 Ideas With A Kick November 21, 2009 at 9:45 pm

Easy as ABC….D :) . This reminds me of what in psychology and not only is referred to as a change threshold. The point where you end up after enough practice, repetition, when a certain way of thinking, feeling or doing things is part of you. Problem is a lot of people give up exactly when they are very close to the threshold.

Eduard
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6 Steven Aitchison November 23, 2009 at 6:44 am

You’re so right Eduard, so many people give up when they are on the verge of crossing another line. It’s the part when they just cannot believe enough in themselves to make the crossing.

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7 Anastasiya November 22, 2009 at 12:19 am

This is so true Steven, the most diffcicult part for many people is to see these lines and to position themselves properly. I am also sure that there are a lot of people who do not want to cross any lines, they are just comfortable in a little world that they have created for themselves. They do no have goals or ambitions.
I am happy to cross lines in my life and I am ooking to more information from you in the future.
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8 Steven Aitchison November 23, 2009 at 6:48 am

Hi Anastasiya. I think the very fact that you are writing your blog and reading other blogs like this means you are self aware and want to improve yourself all the time and that is the difference between you and a lot of others out there, they lack the motivation. However, theres nothing wrong with that as long as they know that they could be better however have chosen to stay where they are, within their lines.

I appreciate all your support.

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9 Armen Shirvanian November 22, 2009 at 6:42 pm

Hi Steven.

These lines are hard to cross. I’m thinking less than 5% of people cross the B line, and maybe only about 20% of people cross the C line.

Going from C to B takes being okay with letting some people down temporarily, and acting without much support for a period, which is what maintains the wall between those lines.

I could characterize a fair amount of choices as the types that represent B or C or D level material.

The hard part is to understand that these lines are only for us to cross, and that we can’t blame someone else for not having crossed one.
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10 Steven Aitchison November 23, 2009 at 6:51 am

Hi Armen. You’ve hit the nail on the head stating that you can’t blame someone else for not crossing lines it’s up to each individual. What percentage would you say cross the A-Level Line?

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11 Armen Shirvanian November 27, 2009 at 9:31 am

I’d have to say that less than 1% of people would cross that A line. Those are the people we see as nearly unstoppable, and there are so few of those individuals that they are easily picked out of a crowd.
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12 Robin Easton November 22, 2009 at 8:20 pm

Dear Steven, This is one of the best articles I’ve read. The heart of the line issue for me is (as you say): “…but the pain of not crossing them is more painful than the pain of crossing them. ”

So I actively seek out and cross every line I can find. I continually ask is there anywhere where I’ve drawn a line. If I find one I have to cross it just because I HAVE to live FREE. I cannot let fear or habit limit my life experience. Because…I may not come this way again (I don’t know yet). And I want to LIVE every single skerrick of Life that I possibly can.

That does not mean that it is always easy or with out challenge or even discomfort or pain…..But I don’t care. I learned long ago to do it anyway…. because I have also learned that every time I cross these lines I expand and expand and grow to such vastness that there are few lines left. The world is my oyster to simply savor, experience and explore. Soooooo much to explore both within and without.

Thank you dear Steven. This is a beautiful and thought provoking article. It speaks of FREEDOM. Great freedom.

PS I’ve been running way behind due to computer and web host problems and was unable to be online.
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13 Steven Aitchison November 23, 2009 at 6:57 am

Hi Robin. I can see you crossing every line you come across, laughing with joy every time you do it :) I think pain is necessary in our lives for us to experience the joy of crossing the lines, it’s part of life and you’re right it makes us expand beyond measure.

I noticed you had been off the grid for a bit, thought you were taking a break :) . I also have to say I learned a new word from your comment: ‘Skerrick’, I had to look it up in the dictionary as I had never heard it before, so thanks for adding to my vocabulary :)

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14 Steven Handel November 23, 2009 at 12:37 am

Interesting advice Steve. I have one comment and then an unrelated question that maybe you can help me with.

First, I wanted to quote this line:

“…the people who have the mentality that the world owes them something due to the fact that they are living and breathing. ”

I think you nailed it right here! These types of people cannot take responsibility for their lives, and consequently they don’t have any sense of personal power. To live in a world expecting that it owes you something, or even that the world is responsible for the poor life conditions you are in now, is never a position that will get you ANYWHERE unless you change your perspective.

Secondly, I wanted to ask how you made your Author Bio box at the top of your post. I am really bad with html, but I wanted to make one of these for my blog. Any help would be much appreciated!

Thanks!
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15 Steven Aitchison November 23, 2009 at 7:04 am

Hi Steven. I have to admit to not feeling sorry for people who don’t have the ambition or drive to better themselves or cross the sub-D Line, however, it’s when people don’t know any better that makes it a bad situation and that’s the people we have to help to show them that there is another way to live if they so choose.

Okay the author box is mastered by a plugin which you can get at http://devilsbackyard.com/post/wordpress-about-the-author-box-plugin/

Hope that helps Steven, thanks for visiting.

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16 Ari Herzog November 23, 2009 at 3:04 am

The kicker to the above content and comments is when you believe you are in one place but your best friend thinks you are somewhere else. Who determines line placement: you or those who look up to you?
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17 Steven Aitchison November 23, 2009 at 7:00 am

Hi Ari, :) that is a kicker however it is you who determines line placement it’s your reality. There will of course sometimes be reality checks and you have to start over but it is still you who decides that.

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18 Nea | Self Improvement Saga November 23, 2009 at 3:44 am

Steven, this was a wonderful post. I can’t wait to read the book in January.
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19 Steven Aitchison November 23, 2009 at 6:58 am

Thanks Nea I appreciate you stopping by and leaving a comment, I’m looking forward to January as well.

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20 Justin Dixon- AlittleBetter.net November 23, 2009 at 2:11 pm

I’ve had to cross a few of these lines a number of times in my own journey of self-improvement, and its likely I have many more lines to cross, but I have never heard it broken down this clearly. I just though of one line that was just going for it, forcing myself to have no other choice but to move forward.
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21 Steven Aitchison November 23, 2009 at 3:13 pm

Hi Justin thanks for stopping by. I think we’re constantly crossing lines, whether it be the lines inbetween the major ones or stepping back and forth between the major ones.

For one so young I can tell you have crossed a few major lines and doing great to help others cross their lines as well.
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22 Vin - NaturalBias November 23, 2009 at 2:17 pm

Hi Steven! Interesting way of describing our progress in life. It and it sounds like you have a great book in the works!

I like that you mentioned values as I think this is an important aspect of “crossing the lines.” Without the passion and resulting motivation that results from living by your values, it can be hard to progress. Who wants to be forced to cross the “D Line” every day to go to a job that they hate? Similarly, someone who is driven and wants to cross the “B Line” will go out of their mind doing something that is boring and pointless to them.
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23 Steven Aitchison November 23, 2009 at 4:30 pm

Hi Vin. I think values are pivotal in change and it’s important to look at our values and change them where necessary in order for us to progress in life. A lot of people are stuck in jobs they hate, I say stuck, it’s just a belief to say they are stuck. this is where belief change and value change is necessary. Thanks for stopping by Vin.
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24 david corbin November 23, 2009 at 11:00 pm

Steven,
I wanted to weigh in on this conversation because Im so impressed with the dialogue. One thing that I want to add is this: We cant solve everything we face but we cant solve anything until we face it.
That’s the essence of the book: ive been reading your blog for a while and think that we’re in synch in some ways.
take a look at my new book and let me know what you think.
Its the #2 Amazon Best Seller- Illuminate: Harnessing The Positive Power of Negative Thinking (Wiley&Sons) http://tinyurl.com/o5u9wp
best.
Im deeply committed to having those of us who are committed to a BIGGER life do the three steps taught in this simple parable: Face It, Follow It and Fix It.
I’d be happy to send you a copy Steven if you feel it would be of value to you and those on this conversation.
My best,
David

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25 Melissa Karnaze November 24, 2009 at 10:38 pm

Steven, thank you for this great analogy, this is definitely food for thought! I think the image is really powerful as well. Just this morning, I was thinking about all the things I’d rather not face today by getting out of bed. But I realized that the line had to be crossed or the day wouldn’t get on!

All the best finishing your new book! I can totally see this analogy expanding into a full-length book, or even several, with great examples and details on how to cross different lines in life.
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26 Lana - DreamFollowers Blog November 27, 2009 at 8:23 am

Great article Steven, got me thinkiing where I am at this point in my life, probably somewhere in between C and B, really hope to become B completely soon. I wonder if you can skip B altogether and go to A directly. They say enlightenment happens this way sometimes.

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27 שירותים משפטיים November 28, 2009 at 4:12 pm

It is a very interesting way of looking at personal growth and development. I find that the process of “crossing the lines” is a life-time work. As I read the post and tried to see where I’m positioned regarding the different lines, I could see that in different fields in my life I’m at different places. For example, in some personal relationships in my life I’m at B, and in others I’m at D, in my career I have some D and some C. When I thought about it, it gave me inspiration. If I crossed the line in one place, then I can use it as inspiration and example as to how to cross it in other places.

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28 Zoli Cserei December 19, 2009 at 10:40 pm

Stephen!

This is one of the most inspiring ideas I have seen on the web for a good while! Are you going to publish this book as a printed book or will you release it as an e-book? Anyway, I’m interested in buying it (and maybe even affiliate sales if you’ll have an option)

First, I thought that these lines and levels are reached by individuals on a one-by-one manner. After reading your article, I realize that although there’s a character of “levels” in them, the relationship is quite flexible, you can cross different level lines without strict progression. A very fascinating idea and concept, thank you for sharing :D

Merry Christmas,
Zoli
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