Are You Planning to Fail

by Mr Self Development on September 7, 2009 · 23 comments

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Do you have a written plan that details how you will succeed, step-by-step, month-by-month? If you don’t, then you are planning to fail.

I don’t care if you’re trying to lose 20lbs, become CEO, win a golf tournament, or start your own business; you’ll need a ’solid’ plan that you ‘believe in,’ in order to succeed.

Without a plan, you have very little direction, and it will be almost impossible to be consistent. Without consistency you will never make any long-term progress; you will never experience success.

Develop a Good Plan

Sometime ago when I was looking to start a weight-lifting regiment, I decided to put together a weight-lifting ‘plan.’ I read several books on weight-lifting, I scanned the internet, and I talked with several individuals who were currently lifting weights.

Based on my research, I developed a plan using the best advice from each of my sources and I placed that plan on the wall of my home gym.

[A 'good plan' should always include your goals, as well as specific daily direction to ensure you meet your goals.]

My plan included how long each workout would be, as well as what time I would begin my workouts.

Work the Plan

Of course, it’s not enough to just have a plan. In order for the ‘plan’ to work, you have to ‘work’ the plan. The ‘plan’ works, when you ‘work’ the plan.

If you’re trying to become a professional dancer, ‘working the plan’ may mean practicing 10 hours a day, but the plan has to be ‘worked.’

You must develop the habit of following the plan daily; ‘consistency’ and ‘habit’ will take you further than your ‘desires’ ever will.

Make Adjustments to the Plan

Although I believe I put together a good weight-lifting plan initially, it wasn’t a perfect plan. Three months into the plan, I realized that I needed to make some adjustments: I was over-working my pectoral muscles, so I decided to work them less frequently. I also made some additional changes in my diet.

Your initial plan will almost always change; this is not a problem (just make sure to have your ‘plan’ saved on your computer, so you can make quick updates and re-print as necessary).

‘Tweak the plan,’ until it’s the perfect plan for you.

Remain Faithful to the Plan

This is the most critical of all the steps. If you don’t faithfully work your plan everyday, how can you expect to succeed? A good plan will challenge you, it will stretch you, it will demand the very best from you.

Are you willing to remain faithful to your plan when things get tough?

Are you willing to stick to your plan, when someone is passing out ‘free’ donuts? Are you willing to stick to your plan, when everyone else has gone home for the day? Are you willing to stick to your plan, after you reach your goal? The question really becomes, how bad do you want it. If you want it bad enough, you will remain faithful.

In closing, if you don’t have a plan, develop a plan this week. Start with your research; find the best ways to get the results you seek (study folks who have already succeeded). Then begin to ‘work the plan’ daily; make adjustments as necessary, stay faithful to the plan (in the face of challenges), and you will succeed.

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1 Tiffany September 7, 2009 at 7:36 pm

Hey Mr. Self Development, great article…..thanks for sharing…this was just the motivation I needed to put together my diet plan….

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2 Mr. Self Development September 9, 2009 at 2:38 pm

Glad to hear it…thanks for stopping by and commenting…
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3 Patrick September 7, 2009 at 10:34 pm

Thanks Mr. Self Development.
One critical point I think is missing is beside defining a plan is establishing the reason for your goal. Why do you want to achieve it. I think that focussing on tons of benefits I get is the essential fuel I need to get myself going and keep at my plan.

Just with pure willpower I am destined to fail the plan to procrastination though.

So I think it’s best to go deep inside and reconnect with who inside you wants to achieve the goal and ask for strong one or several good reasons why.
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4 Mr. Self Development September 8, 2009 at 12:50 am

Patrick…I certainly agree that you must have very compelling reasons in order to accomplish your goals…And you must be focused “on those reasons” like the sailor is focused on the port in the harbor in which he is headed…

However…if you’re straining, forcing and/or searching for reasons to accomplish the goal…I think you should ask yourself “Why the struggle? Are you passionate about this goal? Do you really want to achieve this goal?”

Here’s a quote from the classic book “The Science of Getting Rich”…

“No one needs to take exercises to concentrate his mind on a thing which he really wants; it is the things you do no care about which require effort to fix your attention upon them.”

Thanks for commenting….!
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5 Aaron Phillips September 8, 2009 at 3:38 am

Thanks for the article. Hopefully it’s the motivation that I need for my next business venture.

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6 Meghashyam Chirravoori September 8, 2009 at 8:44 am

Dear Mr Self Development

When trying to plan my goals, I realized something interesting. It was that I could stick to my plan when it was such that it stretched me a little more than what I was currently capable of in terms of executing the plan. But when I planned way beyond my capability – I saw that almost inevitably I had to change the plan again and again as I couldn’t stick to it. And when the plan got too easy, then it didn’t serve its purpose anyway.

Just shared it for no reason. :)

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7 Mr. Self Development September 8, 2009 at 12:36 pm

Great comment…great point…I’ve experienced the same thing…your goals should stretch you beyond where you are…but they must also be believable and reasonable (in your mind) in order for you to be motivated to achieve them…

Thanks for commenting…
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8 Leslie September 8, 2009 at 1:51 pm

Great article! Thanks a lot for sharing. :-)

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9 Mr. Self Development September 9, 2009 at 2:37 pm

Leslie, hello there….thanks for taking the time to comment…
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10 Colleen September 8, 2009 at 3:11 pm

“…a written plan that details how you will succeed…” = “…you are planning to fail…”

Not sure I agree with this. My husband and I have never written down any of our goals or plans, however, we’ve had a successful marriage, business(s), and our kids our doing very well. However, I must admit that if we were to write things out, we might have even more success.

Sometimes, writing goals out is a bandaid for a lack of self discipline, and/or self motivation. Emphasis on ’sometimes.;
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11 Mr. Self Development September 8, 2009 at 4:25 pm

Colleen…thanks for taking the time to comment…!!!

I was being facecious when I said that…I wasn’t going for a literal interpretation of the text…

My point was that having written goals and plans can significantly stretch you beyond what you’re currently doing…(studies have confirmed this)…
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12 Karlil September 8, 2009 at 8:36 pm

It’s bad to have a goal without a plan. Actually, I wouldn’t even call it a goal if there is no plan to it. I call it a dream. Something i take to sleep with ;p
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13 Mr. Self Development September 9, 2009 at 2:36 pm

Very well said, unless goals become plans that are put into action…they’re just dreams…
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14 Fang Jin September 8, 2009 at 9:34 pm

nice written.

I was more hooked into the title, and thought it’s about preparing for failure. But instead the article is about how not to fail ;)
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15 Mr. Self Development September 9, 2009 at 2:34 pm

That’s funny…thanks for the comment…
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16 Caitlin September 9, 2009 at 12:19 am

Great post, I think planning for your successes is extremely important and being specific is at the top of the list.
It’s funny I stumbled across this post because I just happened to rework my own goals and plans because I wasn’t crossing any off. Turns out, nebulous goals don’t usually get accomplished.
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17 Mr. Self Development September 9, 2009 at 2:34 pm

You’re right…nebulous goals won’t take you very far…clarity is key…the greater the clarity the greater the motivation to achieve the goal…
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18 John Duffield September 9, 2009 at 12:34 pm

Good morning Mr. Development! Great post. Those elements…”make a plan, work the plan, change the plan when needed” really are key to making things happen. But I’d like to share something with your readers if I may. First off, I’m old as the hills now. That means I’ve had lots of time to make plans and achieve things, and can back you up 100% on the value of your tips. Even so, I eventually learned this. The goals we achieve had better come from our hearts, or we’re left feeling half-empty….even after achieving them. Like Bernie Siegel says somewhere in his book “Love, Medicine and Miracles”, climbing a ladder somewhere is O.K., as long as it’s leaning against the right wall. The right wall is the one each of us is meant to climb. And here’s the thing. For our own heartfelt goals to be released, we have to learn how to get past one fear. Fear of being judged. If that doesn’t happen, our dreams stay locked up in a shell with us. Don’t get me wrong here though. That doesn’t mean we can’t set goals and achieve big things. We can still pick other people’s goals and go get them. I did that myself for quite a few decades. Thankfully, I eventually discovered how to release my heart’s true desires and headed off that way. In summary then, readers who really do know what to do with their lives will certainly benefit from your ideas. Others may want to focus on dissolving that fear first. Best wishes. John Duffield
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19 Mr. Self Development September 9, 2009 at 2:33 pm

John…great comment…thanks for stopping by…this is certainly good advice…
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20 alternaview September 11, 2009 at 5:12 am

Great post and advice. I think you always need to know where you are going and how you are going to get there otherwise you may just spin and never end up where you are trying to go. I think this advice should be applied to all aspects of life and can be amazingly helpful at work and with anything else you are focusing on accomplishing. It really is a prerequisite to success. And, as you pointed out, we have to stay faithful to the plan…that really is the difference between those who successfully accomplish their goals and those who don’t. It comes down to dedication and commitment.
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21 Eren Mckay September 11, 2009 at 5:57 am

I have to agree with this. The moment I don’t plan or that I don’t stick to the plan I see myself move backwards. For example when I started to lose weight I had a plan in play. The week that i ignored my plan i gained 2 pounds. It’s a matter of having a good plan and also sticking to it. Perseverance is everything if we want to achieve our goals.
Thanks for reminding me of this.
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22 Mike September 12, 2009 at 4:26 am

I think planning is an important step to reaching any goal. I heard a great quote once, it went something like this: “If you dream it it’s a fantasy, if you plan it, it’s a reality” I can’t remember who said it, but I think it rings true.

cheers.
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23 jonathanfigaro September 14, 2009 at 8:49 pm

Faith is one of the strongest characteristics to develop. It shows that you will never give up because you feel that even if you fall off a cliff, your divine lord will save you. Your faith has to be that real! Its about having unwavering faith that you will succeed. I’m loving this post. Its all about planning each and every day. Making sure that everyday is a successful day.
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