Comments on: How to accept yourself http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2009/05/17/how-to-accept-yourself/ to change your life Thu, 02 Sep 2010 16:45:38 +0100 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Maria Gretchen ALcaraz http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2009/05/17/how-to-accept-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-203630 Maria Gretchen ALcaraz Thu, 07 Jan 2010 22:42:04 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/?p=718#comment-203630 Wow!!! what a great post. Very inspiring, I hope I could read a lot more of your postings. Wow!!! what a great post.
Very inspiring, I hope I could read a lot more of your postings.

]]> By: Job Self @ Goal Setting http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2009/05/17/how-to-accept-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-201696 Job Self @ Goal Setting Wed, 14 Oct 2009 23:34:54 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/?p=718#comment-201696 This one is a biggie. It's important to escape the "That's just who I am" trap. If you become your traits, like saying "I am a procrastinator", "I am always late", etc, you will never be able to change it. You need to realize that those are personality traits and that they don' t define you in any way more than the kind of clothes you wear or the brand of chewing gum you like. Simply put, it is not who you are but how you acted on an specific set of occasions under an specific set of factors that happened to align against you ;) .-= Job Self @ Goal Setting´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.goalsetting-worksheet.com/35/basic-goal-setting-worksheet/">Basic Goal Setting Worksheet</a> =-. This one is a biggie. It’s important to escape the “That’s just who I am” trap. If you become your traits, like saying “I am a procrastinator”, “I am always late”, etc, you will never be able to change it. You need to realize that those are personality traits and that they don’ t define you in any way more than the kind of clothes you wear or the brand of chewing gum you like. Simply put, it is not who you are but how you acted on an specific set of occasions under an specific set of factors that happened to align against you ;)
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]]> By: ayo http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2009/05/17/how-to-accept-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-198948 ayo Sat, 04 Jul 2009 16:43:51 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/?p=718#comment-198948 How are you? I have been browsing your blog and reading a few articles. I got a referral from http://www.caroline-middlebrook.com/blog/. It's interesting i have someone in my field i can read and learn from. This post is spot on. The key area would have to be 'If you concentrate on winning the votes of people you don’t like and who don’t like you, you are taking your power and energy away from the people that really matter.' This is an area were we as humans try too hard. We all can't be liked and we are definitely good at cerain things which is acceptable to specific people. we just need to harness our strengths and feel comfortable/confident in ourselves. Great post!!! once again. How are you? I have been browsing your blog and reading a few articles. I got a referral from http://www.caroline-middlebrook.com/blog/. It’s interesting i have someone in my field i can read and learn from.
This post is spot on. The key area would have to be ‘If you concentrate on winning the votes of people you don’t like and who don’t like you, you are taking your power and energy away from the people that really matter.’

This is an area were we as humans try too hard. We all can’t be liked and we are definitely good at cerain things which is acceptable to specific people. we just need to harness our strengths and feel comfortable/confident in ourselves.

Great post!!! once again.

]]> By: Toronto Roofing http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2009/05/17/how-to-accept-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-198436 Toronto Roofing Wed, 24 Jun 2009 18:32:02 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/?p=718#comment-198436 People who can't accept themselves are douche bags. People who can’t accept themselves are douche bags.

]]> By: Haley Jageilsky http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2009/05/17/how-to-accept-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-198187 Haley Jageilsky Fri, 19 Jun 2009 04:00:17 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/?p=718#comment-198187 A marvelously written article. I couldn't agree more than to accept yourself for who you are. Many people say, 'you must love yourself'. But how could you do that with people making fun of you? I've had my run of negative comments behind my back and even in front of me. The thing is, my head keep telling me patience - be patient and smile. But my instincts felt like ripping the other person's ego apart. I have come to terms with the fact that people tease you and make you doubt yourself because they are not confident of themselves or they just want to see other people going down with them. Over the last few weeks, I have accepted myself for who I am. Let them say what they want. But in the end, let them say - hey, it's getting old. A marvelously written article. I couldn’t agree more than to accept yourself for who you are. Many people say, ‘you must love yourself’. But how could you do that with people making fun of you? I’ve had my run of negative comments behind my back and even in front of me. The thing is, my head keep telling me patience – be patient and smile. But my instincts felt like ripping the other person’s ego apart. I have come to terms with the fact that people tease you and make you doubt yourself because they are not confident of themselves or they just want to see other people going down with them. Over the last few weeks, I have accepted myself for who I am. Let them say what they want. But in the end, let them say – hey, it’s getting old.

]]> By: Bedding Mattress http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2009/05/17/how-to-accept-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-196941 Bedding Mattress Wed, 03 Jun 2009 21:33:22 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/?p=718#comment-196941 Yup it's the old if you can't take yourself seriously, how can anyone else problem. I just figure i am what i am, and work every day to try and better myself. Yup it’s the old if you can’t take yourself seriously, how can anyone else problem. I just figure i am what i am, and work every day to try and better myself.

]]> By: Reseller Hosting http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2009/05/17/how-to-accept-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-196636 Reseller Hosting Sat, 30 May 2009 23:35:42 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/?p=718#comment-196636 I have suffered a lot because of this.. it created lots of problems for me in life but i have learned one more thing from life and that is if we try to find out the similarities and respect the differences in between our partner, then this make it more easier to keep going with life :) Regards, Leif I have suffered a lot because of this.. it created lots of problems for me in life but i have learned one more thing from life and that is if we try to find out the similarities and respect the differences in between our partner, then this make it more easier to keep going with life :)

Regards,
Leif

]]> By: the canvas blob http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2009/05/17/how-to-accept-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-196497 the canvas blob Fri, 29 May 2009 10:54:10 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/?p=718#comment-196497 i went through a stage of wanting to be someone else, then one day woke up and thought well you no what screw them im me and thats it and have never looked back since. accepting yourself is the best confidence booster any1 can have so go out there and be yourself and not a clone!!!! the gosble word from the blob i went through a stage of wanting to be someone else, then one day woke up and thought well you no what screw them im me and thats it and have never looked back since. accepting yourself is the best confidence booster any1 can have

so go out there and be yourself and not a clone!!!!

the gosble word from the blob

]]> By: Alfred http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2009/05/17/how-to-accept-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-196191 Alfred Wed, 27 May 2009 19:26:42 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/?p=718#comment-196191 This is a little too broad of a statement for me. For example, you might hate your job but need it to support your family. You need to make the best of that. You can't just quit and follow your dreams at the expense of your family. Sacrifices must be made. This is a little too broad of a statement for me. For example, you might hate your job but need it to support your family. You need to make the best of that. You can’t just quit and follow your dreams at the expense of your family. Sacrifices must be made.

]]> By: medical website design http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2009/05/17/how-to-accept-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-193802 medical website design Sun, 24 May 2009 08:45:10 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/?p=718#comment-193802 You can accept where you are today but choose to improve. Accepting yourself is the first and most important part of improving yourself. You can accept where you are today but choose to improve. Accepting yourself is the first and most important part of improving yourself.

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