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		<title>By: kamagrarx</title>
		<link>http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2009/05/07/how-to-be-assertive/comment-page-1/#comment-200650</link>
		<dc:creator>kamagrarx</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2009 06:27:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice article. Thanks for sharing......</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice article. Thanks for sharing&#8230;&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: mens bracelets</title>
		<link>http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2009/05/07/how-to-be-assertive/comment-page-1/#comment-199511</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Jul 2009 16:16:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice article and it was very interesting to know about it. Thanks for sharing with us through this blog and really you have done a great job.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice article and it was very interesting to know about it. Thanks for sharing with us through this blog and really you have done a great job.</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 04:56:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can be quite assertive, especially at work, but this was something I had to learn. By adopting a system that makes it clear what your priorities are, you gain confidence in your own opinions. I am fascinated by this subject.. and I have devoted my blog to such issues too</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can be quite assertive, especially at work, but this was something I had to learn. By adopting a system that makes it clear what your priorities are, you gain confidence in your own opinions. I am fascinated by this subject.. and I have devoted my blog to such issues too</p>
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		<title>By: Mutuo</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mutuo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2009 11:50:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>GOOD NEWS/BAD NEWS
This announcement was great news. Unfortunately it was short lived. FHA backed out on May 14. I tried to get a Buyer qualified on May 15th and was turned down. FHA cannot be depended upon to accept the $8000 as a down payment. You can however get a “gift” from a relative or employer for the down payment and then pay them back by amending your 2008 tax return and receiving the $8000 within a couple of months or so. Remember, the $8000 incentive disappears December 1st 2009.
Craig Bruner Broker CRS GRI</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>GOOD NEWS/BAD NEWS<br />
This announcement was great news. Unfortunately it was short lived. FHA backed out on May 14. I tried to get a Buyer qualified on May 15th and was turned down. FHA cannot be depended upon to accept the $8000 as a down payment. You can however get a “gift” from a relative or employer for the down payment and then pay them back by amending your 2008 tax return and receiving the $8000 within a couple of months or so. Remember, the $8000 incentive disappears December 1st 2009.<br />
Craig Bruner Broker CRS GRI</p>
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		<title>By: james touso</title>
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		<dc:creator>james touso</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Jun 2009 12:04:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What you can do with the people which are highly aggressive in nature.I think its tough for aggressive guys to be assertive.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What you can do with the people which are highly aggressive in nature.I think its tough for aggressive guys to be assertive.</p>
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		<title>By: Reseller Hosting</title>
		<link>http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2009/05/07/how-to-be-assertive/comment-page-1/#comment-196637</link>
		<dc:creator>Reseller Hosting</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 May 2009 23:42:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You have a great blog here and it was Nice to read some well written posts that are really helping me to change at many lacking points in me. Changing someone on their lacking points is a good work.. Keep it up with Good Work.

Best Regards, 
Leif</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You have a great blog here and it was Nice to read some well written posts that are really helping me to change at many lacking points in me. Changing someone on their lacking points is a good work.. Keep it up with Good Work.</p>
<p>Best Regards,<br />
Leif</p>
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		<title>By: FlatIronExperts</title>
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		<dc:creator>FlatIronExperts</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 May 2009 12:17:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thats a very helpful guide Steve. Most of the problems you discussed at the top are simply me. Thanks for your guidelines. Will definitely follow them</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thats a very helpful guide Steve. Most of the problems you discussed at the top are simply me. Thanks for your guidelines. Will definitely follow them</p>
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		<title>By: Burak Beliktay</title>
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		<dc:creator>Burak Beliktay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2009 15:31:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>http://www.beliktay.net

and

http://canlifilmizle.beliktay.net

good info.

thanks...</description>
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<p>and</p>
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<p>good info.</p>
<p>thanks&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Cala dOr Mallorca</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cala dOr Mallorca</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 May 2009 10:14:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just stand up and SHOUT !

Being serious now, If you are choosing to be assertive, you will be taken far more seriously if you are calm and quiet, but firm, rather that just shouting your mouth off.</description>
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<p>Being serious now, If you are choosing to be assertive, you will be taken far more seriously if you are calm and quiet, but firm, rather that just shouting your mouth off.</p>
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		<title>By: hrdo</title>
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		<dc:creator>hrdo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2009 20:08:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Being assertive is definitely necessary in many situations. Lack of assertiveness comes, in many cases, from low self esteem and lack of self confidence, I believe. I can be quite assertive, especially at work, but this was something I had to learn. By adopting a system that makes it clear what your priorities are, you gain confidence in your own opinions. I am fasinated by this subject.. and I have devoted my blog to such issues too :-) Have a look at http://laifmanage.blogspot.com and tell me what you think in the comments! Thanks for a good post!

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;hrdo’s great blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://laifmanage.blogspot.com/2009/05/personal-branding-necessity-for.html&quot;&gt;Personal branding - a necessity for happiness&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Being assertive is definitely necessary in many situations. Lack of assertiveness comes, in many cases, from low self esteem and lack of self confidence, I believe. I can be quite assertive, especially at work, but this was something I had to learn. By adopting a system that makes it clear what your priorities are, you gain confidence in your own opinions. I am fasinated by this subject.. and I have devoted my blog to such issues too <img src='http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  Have a look at <a href="http://laifmanage.blogspot.com">http://laifmanage.blogspot.com</a> and tell me what you think in the comments! Thanks for a good post!</p>
<p><abbr><em>hrdo’s great blog post..<a href="http://laifmanage.blogspot.com/2009/05/personal-branding-necessity-for.html">Personal branding &#8211; a necessity for happiness</a></em></abbr></p>
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