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		<title>By: Coach Rosie</title>
		<link>http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2009/01/19/life-is-shit/comment-page-1/#comment-202573</link>
		<dc:creator>Coach Rosie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2009 22:10:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I find that I agree with the the &#039;life is shitters&#039;. It is. But funnily enough I also agree with Steven. Because the fact is just as the tide comes in it goes out. I challenge anyone to find something in nature that is all one way without an opposite.....unless it&#039;s already dead.

It is of course impossible to help people that won&#039;t help themselves, but I am also aware of someone who through an accident was burnt over 70% of their body and completely disfigured....the wife then left him and THEN later he endured a plane crash which also made them a paraplegic. If he isn&#039;t a candidate for a &#039;life is shit&#039; badge I don&#039;t know who is.

But even as a disfigured paraplegic this guy ran for mayor...and came second. He also owns some million dollar companies.

The difference between him and the &#039;life is shitters&#039; is how they are trained to think and the choices they make. I would suggest that as open as you are to seeing that life is shit, be equally open about the fact that with a little help it might not be shit ALL the time.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I find that I agree with the the &#8216;life is shitters&#8217;. It is. But funnily enough I also agree with Steven. Because the fact is just as the tide comes in it goes out. I challenge anyone to find something in nature that is all one way without an opposite&#8230;..unless it&#8217;s already dead.</p>
<p>It is of course impossible to help people that won&#8217;t help themselves, but I am also aware of someone who through an accident was burnt over 70% of their body and completely disfigured&#8230;.the wife then left him and THEN later he endured a plane crash which also made them a paraplegic. If he isn&#8217;t a candidate for a &#8216;life is shit&#8217; badge I don&#8217;t know who is.</p>
<p>But even as a disfigured paraplegic this guy ran for mayor&#8230;and came second. He also owns some million dollar companies.</p>
<p>The difference between him and the &#8216;life is shitters&#8217; is how they are trained to think and the choices they make. I would suggest that as open as you are to seeing that life is shit, be equally open about the fact that with a little help it might not be shit ALL the time.</p>
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		<title>By: Steven Aitchison</title>
		<link>http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2009/01/19/life-is-shit/comment-page-1/#comment-202143</link>
		<dc:creator>Steven Aitchison</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Oct 2009 06:37:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I honestly don&#039;t get it.  When you have something like this to say why do you not use your real name? I can&#039;t take you seriously when you hide your identity.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I honestly don&#8217;t get it.  When you have something like this to say why do you not use your real name? I can&#8217;t take you seriously when you hide your identity.</p>
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		<title>By: JCR</title>
		<link>http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2009/01/19/life-is-shit/comment-page-1/#comment-202137</link>
		<dc:creator>JCR</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Oct 2009 01:18:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I known you mean well mate but you come across as a sanctomoniuos shit. I have worked in the addictions environment for the last 20+years and I never fill peoples minds with unattainable expectations or goals, I am really worried that you are targeting the vulnerable for your own personable gratification, and if that is the case,  I pity you, If that is not the case then I admire you.

please tell what path you are going on.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I known you mean well mate but you come across as a sanctomoniuos shit. I have worked in the addictions environment for the last 20+years and I never fill peoples minds with unattainable expectations or goals, I am really worried that you are targeting the vulnerable for your own personable gratification, and if that is the case,  I pity you, If that is not the case then I admire you.</p>
<p>please tell what path you are going on.</p>
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		<title>By: alex</title>
		<link>http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2009/01/19/life-is-shit/comment-page-1/#comment-201897</link>
		<dc:creator>alex</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2009 14:28:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>life is shit because I don’t have a friends</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>life is shit because I don’t have a friends</p>
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		<title>By: juliet</title>
		<link>http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2009/01/19/life-is-shit/comment-page-1/#comment-201554</link>
		<dc:creator>juliet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Oct 2009 02:48:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ok, so here is my problem:
my life is a shit because 1.my step-father has serious anger management and he hits me, and i am totally trapped under his claws and i can&#039;t do ANYTHING about it 2.my mother doesn&#039;t does anything about it and blames me all the time 3.i am unhappy at my house, there is no love in there 4. at school i have recently discovered that my friends are bitches to me who don&#039;t give a shit about me 5. i&#039;ve totally lost the guy i liked -he loved me once -but now it&#039;s all over and he&#039;s moved on to the next girl, he is mean to me now and i can&#039;t bare the pain it gives to me those 2 things 6. i had a chance to mend up things with him at tonight&#039;s party, but my step-father didn&#039;t let me go, he locked me in my room and left to a dinner he had. now it&#039;s definitively all over and i am pitiful, lonely, and the pain is way too much for me to stand it. i am alone in all this shit. 
and now tell me, what can i possibly do if i never have the guy i want? or what it&#039;s worse: i will have to see him every day with the other girl. i can&#039;t bare it. school is hell, my house is hell, everywhere i go is hell.
how can i smile then?
it&#039;s so bad i can&#039;t even pretend to smile.
i hate this. 
it&#039;s all over now. 
i am sure that i will end up my life with 80 years and i will still haven&#039;t even kissed a guy. i am destined to live a lonely and pitiful life, right?
how can you solve this problem???</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ok, so here is my problem:<br />
my life is a shit because 1.my step-father has serious anger management and he hits me, and i am totally trapped under his claws and i can&#8217;t do ANYTHING about it 2.my mother doesn&#8217;t does anything about it and blames me all the time 3.i am unhappy at my house, there is no love in there 4. at school i have recently discovered that my friends are bitches to me who don&#8217;t give a shit about me 5. i&#8217;ve totally lost the guy i liked -he loved me once -but now it&#8217;s all over and he&#8217;s moved on to the next girl, he is mean to me now and i can&#8217;t bare the pain it gives to me those 2 things 6. i had a chance to mend up things with him at tonight&#8217;s party, but my step-father didn&#8217;t let me go, he locked me in my room and left to a dinner he had. now it&#8217;s definitively all over and i am pitiful, lonely, and the pain is way too much for me to stand it. i am alone in all this shit.<br />
and now tell me, what can i possibly do if i never have the guy i want? or what it&#8217;s worse: i will have to see him every day with the other girl. i can&#8217;t bare it. school is hell, my house is hell, everywhere i go is hell.<br />
how can i smile then?<br />
it&#8217;s so bad i can&#8217;t even pretend to smile.<br />
i hate this.<br />
it&#8217;s all over now.<br />
i am sure that i will end up my life with 80 years and i will still haven&#8217;t even kissed a guy. i am destined to live a lonely and pitiful life, right?<br />
how can you solve this problem???</p>
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		<title>By: Antinatalist</title>
		<link>http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2009/01/19/life-is-shit/comment-page-1/#comment-201477</link>
		<dc:creator>Antinatalist</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Oct 2009 01:07:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t believe in life. Meaningless suffering with everything to lose and nothing to gain. I see people popping children without even thinking of the consequences and it pisses me off.  Yes Steven, Life is what you make of it but there are some horrible experiences that you will never really get over. All good experieces END and result in a LASTING bad experience, people just accept and move on until they can&#039;t and say :&quot;life is shit&quot;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t believe in life. Meaningless suffering with everything to lose and nothing to gain. I see people popping children without even thinking of the consequences and it pisses me off.  Yes Steven, Life is what you make of it but there are some horrible experiences that you will never really get over. All good experieces END and result in a LASTING bad experience, people just accept and move on until they can&#8217;t and say :&#8221;life is shit&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>By: Steven Aitchison</title>
		<link>http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2009/01/19/life-is-shit/comment-page-1/#comment-201471</link>
		<dc:creator>Steven Aitchison</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2009 20:59:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amy, you&#039;ve missed the whole point of the post!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amy, you&#8217;ve missed the whole point of the post!</p>
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		<title>By: amy</title>
		<link>http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2009/01/19/life-is-shit/comment-page-1/#comment-201453</link>
		<dc:creator>amy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2009 03:11:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>easy 4 u to say. this is the real world love things aint that easy if it was then people wouldn&#039;t be going on about  how shit their life is would they</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>easy 4 u to say. this is the real world love things aint that easy if it was then people wouldn&#8217;t be going on about  how shit their life is would they</p>
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		<title>By: Austin Faurnet</title>
		<link>http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2009/01/19/life-is-shit/comment-page-1/#comment-200824</link>
		<dc:creator>Austin Faurnet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 06:12:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>well said man, its the truth!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>well said man, its the truth!</p>
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		<title>By: serendipity25</title>
		<link>http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2009/01/19/life-is-shit/comment-page-1/#comment-200566</link>
		<dc:creator>serendipity25</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Sep 2009 18:09:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>was just feeling very sorry for myself but i need to get a grip &amp; carry on for my kids who have been thru so much already.  i&#039;m trying to clear my brain so excuse the stream of consciousness.  my other half is being horrible but he took a massive overdose last week &amp; has just come out of hospital so he probably feels even shitter than me.  but he did hit me the week before.  i would not press charges as i am very frightened of my ex-husband who was awful.  i know that he will hurt the kids (my ex) if i stand up to him so what is the right path? i am not sure but i have to keep hope that i wil find it.   every day i wake up &amp; feel sick that i will never escape my ex-husband.  i feel so trapped but i have to believe that we will escape him.  the courts &amp; social services have been shitter than shit.  even refuge could not help, they tried but they are toothless in the face of a  big earner.  we have repeatedly been punished for speaking out about domestic violence.  i don&#039;t know what the earning threshold is where domestic violence become acceptable in fact even amusing to one judge - who seemed to find my injuries and children&#039;s trauma hilarious.  my ex-husband is certainly over the earnings/class threshold so domestic violence is a big joke.   sorry just had to hand my kids over to their dad who was drunk &amp; is a psycho.  &amp; boyfriend depressed &amp; being horrible - reminding me how he doesn&#039;t give a shit about us.  not a bean in the bank (tho&#039; emergency funds from kind friend arriving).  i know much worse happening to other people.  i just want to escape this stupid stupid situation &amp; have nothing but my girls.  i hate money.  i am lucking in that i always seem to be able to earn just enough for us to live.  i miss my family so much but our passports were taken because we went to a refuge.   i hate money.  it makes people crazy.  i know people are in much worse sitations.  sorry, just needed to rant.  lets all just hang onto that glimmer of hope. life is such a gift.  trying to remember that, especially after they made me give up my baby to protect my children from my ex-husband.  that is what broke me.  will i cope with that one day?
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>was just feeling very sorry for myself but i need to get a grip &amp; carry on for my kids who have been thru so much already.  i&#8217;m trying to clear my brain so excuse the stream of consciousness.  my other half is being horrible but he took a massive overdose last week &amp; has just come out of hospital so he probably feels even shitter than me.  but he did hit me the week before.  i would not press charges as i am very frightened of my ex-husband who was awful.  i know that he will hurt the kids (my ex) if i stand up to him so what is the right path? i am not sure but i have to keep hope that i wil find it.   every day i wake up &amp; feel sick that i will never escape my ex-husband.  i feel so trapped but i have to believe that we will escape him.  the courts &amp; social services have been shitter than shit.  even refuge could not help, they tried but they are toothless in the face of a  big earner.  we have repeatedly been punished for speaking out about domestic violence.  i don&#8217;t know what the earning threshold is where domestic violence become acceptable in fact even amusing to one judge &#8211; who seemed to find my injuries and children&#8217;s trauma hilarious.  my ex-husband is certainly over the earnings/class threshold so domestic violence is a big joke.   sorry just had to hand my kids over to their dad who was drunk &amp; is a psycho.  &amp; boyfriend depressed &amp; being horrible &#8211; reminding me how he doesn&#8217;t give a shit about us.  not a bean in the bank (tho&#8217; emergency funds from kind friend arriving).  i know much worse happening to other people.  i just want to escape this stupid stupid situation &amp; have nothing but my girls.  i hate money.  i am lucking in that i always seem to be able to earn just enough for us to live.  i miss my family so much but our passports were taken because we went to a refuge.   i hate money.  it makes people crazy.  i know people are in much worse sitations.  sorry, just needed to rant.  lets all just hang onto that glimmer of hope. life is such a gift.  trying to remember that, especially after they made me give up my baby to protect my children from my ex-husband.  that is what broke me.  will i cope with that one day?<br />
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