Comments on: Life is shit

By: Scott

Scott — Wed, 18 Aug 2010 23:16:26 +0000

Hey,
At the moment I think life is shit. not just my life but the world. How evil and fake it is. but I know soon I won’t be in this crap mood but it’s easy said then done to change your mindset.
So just for the pointless sake to show you what I’m going through (and a stupid attempt to get advice or some cheap sympathy) here’s a list of the crap things in my life:
I’m gay
I hate the body I’m in but afraid of somethig like a sex change
I’ve removed myself from connecting to my “friends” they don’t even call or text me askig what’s up?
No trust connection with family
My trust is shattered with all my used to be close friends
Closet case
I live in fear of people finding out my secret
I get unfeedable urges of lust most nights/mornings
wow I can’t think of anythingelse… nice

Now to try and improve my mood by stating the positives:
I’m a teen! were crazy and hormonal and shit!
despite my grades (yup I’m vain) me and alot of other people think I’m actually quite smart
I do have goals and profession ideas which I will try to acheive as I get older
so what if Im not in a relationship? I’m only 15!
I have a long and hopefully good life ahead of me.

Now looking at both sides I feel better. ( sorry for posting y life story here :p I didn’t have a pen)
great article.

By: Stas

Stas — Mon, 09 Aug 2010 11:55:05 +0000

I won’t say life is shit, just mine )
Realy all you posted is good for some normal people but not someone like me.
I did change jobs alot, and wasn’t good at anything at all. I am too stupid and autist. Its hard for me to interact with people so i am always searching job with little amount of people to comunicate. For now i want to find next one but can’t, in time of crisis stupid people aren’t very popular at workplaces (

My nowadays goal is to learn 3D modeling, so that i could work at home like freelancer and do something that i want. Yet my wants aren’t the same as my skill, i am learning it for more than half year and still not on the level of other people. I was trying alot though, I was fixing cars, writing movie scripts, programming, making sites, system administrator, early times i was translating news for one paper(nowadays my english skills are lesser than some school children – i have very selective memory).

People like me just cant do what they want. I have no way to complete with younger guys that are much smarter than me and know where “left n right” all the time.

By: rebecca

rebecca — Sun, 01 Aug 2010 14:47:31 +0000

life is shit when u got 4 kids and a paretner who u been wiv 4 12 years who doesnt tell me he loves me never makes me feel specail , we never go or do anything tgeva and he never asked me 2 marry him so really i should get out and find the love from someone else yeh!!!!

By: Ben

Ben — Wed, 30 Jun 2010 15:22:39 +0000

I understand your sentiments and applaud your reasoning, the problem is, this information is really only going to help the people who can already help themselves, the people who would really benefit from this would need to sort themselves out first.

I’ll explain myself;

Saying: “The thing to do here is concentrate on being happy with yourself before giving up part of the power to someone else. ” is all very well, but generally the people who have this kind of problem are not very confident and would struggle to achieve this without help.

From this everything would probably take care of itself because once you are happy with yourself, you would have the confidence to achieve most of the things you are promoting here and would therefore not need to read your post?

Please don’t think I am flaming your post, as I agree wholeheartedly with (most) of the things you are saying, I just struggle to see the use of a post obviously aimed at people already able to achieve the suggestions.

much confusion, but kudos to you (I think)

By: talia

talia — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 09:55:28 +0000

Listen Stevan,
It’s easy to talk ( write ) in the way you talk ( write ) wnen you don’t live
in Serbia or in a similar country. When you are female and 45 you can’t do anything to suppor yourself. I graduated from two universities, did different kind of jobs and was always prepared to be sacked. Why? If you work in a private company here they always find some reasons to get rid of “extra” workers. Those who stay work longer hours for the same money or even less. Yes, there is law – but only on paper. If you are not in a big political party or you don’t have some important cousins or friends or you didn’t inherited something then you can dig, clean…or maybe shoot yourself.

By: Paddy

Paddy — Sat, 05 Jun 2010 15:41:58 +0000

Even if you’re successful, the suffering of others less fortunate can make good people feel miserable.
Plenty of drink and drugs can help you enjoy this crazy world by blotting everything out and taking you to an early grave and you won’t have to take out a pension.
Don’t watch TV or read newspapers. That is a major step away from misery.
Be ignorant. What you don’t know, don’t hurt you…… occupy your mind watching sport or pornography.
Being evil can help. The misfortune of others can help us feel better about ourselves.

By: mrmitsay

mrmitsay — Sun, 30 May 2010 14:56:17 +0000

my life gets shitty sometimes but I find a way to overcome it. I keep saying to myself :” Life is just too short to be wasted on complaining and worrying, enjoy yourselves before it’s too late. Live without regrets. Think about the people that are much more miserable than you are”.
Hope this help.

By: Damo R

Damo R — Wed, 05 May 2010 09:25:45 +0000

What is going on here? Some sort of on mass therapy I guess. I feel like my life is shit which is why I came to this site, and having read every single post it is comforting to realise you are not alone.

By: Brodie C

Brodie C — Thu, 22 Apr 2010 08:09:27 +0000

where to begin…I came across this site as I often have the feelin that my life is shit and by typing this into google I was amazed how messed up our thoughts are.
I feel my life is shit too,some times by the choices I make and sometimes by the way external influences affect us.
I have Bi polar which is becoming quite the mainstream illness to have in this day and age and sometimes I think thats why my life is shit,
I hide in my room avoid talking to friends and family and I think I am shit therefore my life is shit.
BUT…things change and you feel happy, maybe its a song,a show a memory of something but your thoughts change to happiness.
Like someone has already said on this site we are emotional beings,I accept that at times my life is shit and it can be hard to deal with the day to days but once you get past past that, and admittedly everyone does (YOU CANT BE SAD ALL THE TIME) just hold on to that happiness for as long as you can,i would be a hypocrate if I said I make the most of my life cos I know I dont but I dont wanna let go of my life like so many I know have.you only get one life and I wanna see it through till the end, shit or not life is important because no one really knows whats gonna happen next

By: JOY T. CHANCE

JOY T. CHANCE — Tue, 06 Apr 2010 14:43:58 +0000

I came across your site whilst doing researchfor a motivational seminar.
Your site is great. I enjoy the insightfulness and resourceful way that your Blog runs. I will be investing in your book once I start earning. Life for me has always been shit – however that’s a five minuet state of mind, then I move forward with a smile because opportunity is always at my finger tips.