Comments on: How to make true friends – Part 5 – Get out of self Deprecation mode http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/04/06/how-to-make-true-friends-%e2%80%93-part-5-%e2%80%93-get-out-of-self-deprecation-mode/#utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=how-to-make-true-friends-%25e2%2580%2593-part-5-%25e2%2580%2593-get-out-of-self-deprecation-mode to change your life Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:10:38 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: Auto Shipping http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/04/06/how-to-make-true-friends-%e2%80%93-part-5-%e2%80%93-get-out-of-self-deprecation-mode/comment-page-1/#comment-152892 Auto Shipping Tue, 29 Jul 2008 15:50:04 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/04/06/how-to-make-true-friends-%e2%80%93-part-5-%e2%80%93-get-out-of-self-deprecation-mode/#comment-152892 Nice post.. There were some great tips for re-building self-confidence. Thanks for sharing! Nice post.. There were some great tips for re-building self-confidence. Thanks for sharing!

]]> By: smart goals trauma http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/04/06/how-to-make-true-friends-%e2%80%93-part-5-%e2%80%93-get-out-of-self-deprecation-mode/comment-page-1/#comment-145711 smart goals trauma Fri, 20 Jun 2008 05:18:48 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/04/06/how-to-make-true-friends-%e2%80%93-part-5-%e2%80%93-get-out-of-self-deprecation-mode/#comment-145711 [...] way to lose potential friends is to put yourself down all the time. People who do this, no matthttp://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/04/06/how-to-make-true-friends-%e2%80%93-part-5-%e2%80%93...Cheerleading is not a sport Orange County RegisterTAKE OUR POLL: There's no convincing Mom blogger [...] [...] way to lose potential friends is to put yourself down all the time. People who do this, no matthttp://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/04/06/how-to-make-true-friends-%e2%80%93-part-5-%e2%80%93…Cheerleading is not a sport Orange County RegisterTAKE OUR POLL: There’s no convincing Mom blogger [...]

]]> By: Antiaging Cream - Marcus http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/04/06/how-to-make-true-friends-%e2%80%93-part-5-%e2%80%93-get-out-of-self-deprecation-mode/comment-page-1/#comment-134016 Antiaging Cream - Marcus Mon, 19 May 2008 03:41:57 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/04/06/how-to-make-true-friends-%e2%80%93-part-5-%e2%80%93-get-out-of-self-deprecation-mode/#comment-134016 Yes, self deprecation can be a real habit. Putting yourself down can seem safe, but others are not attracted to it, as it's really negative. A good thing to do is to take actions towards your goals no matter what your negative self talk is saying (and is saying out of pure habit like a repeating tape machine) and feel good from being able to take action and change with the situation you're in. Yes, self deprecation can be a real habit. Putting yourself down can seem safe, but others are not attracted to it, as it’s really negative. A good thing to do is to take actions towards your goals no matter what your negative self talk is saying (and is saying out of pure habit like a repeating tape machine) and feel good from being able to take action and change with the situation you’re in.

]]> By: Zath http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/04/06/how-to-make-true-friends-%e2%80%93-part-5-%e2%80%93-get-out-of-self-deprecation-mode/comment-page-1/#comment-129345 Zath Sat, 26 Apr 2008 10:18:04 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/04/06/how-to-make-true-friends-%e2%80%93-part-5-%e2%80%93-get-out-of-self-deprecation-mode/#comment-129345 This is a great article Steven, it can be very annoying trying to deal with someone like this, but this should definitely help! Thanks! This is a great article Steven, it can be very annoying trying to deal with someone like this, but this should definitely help! Thanks!

]]> By: Mr Achievement’s Top Positions - Week of April 25, 2008 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/04/06/how-to-make-true-friends-%e2%80%93-part-5-%e2%80%93-get-out-of-self-deprecation-mode/comment-page-1/#comment-129105 Mr Achievement’s Top Positions - Week of April 25, 2008 Fri, 25 Apr 2008 17:58:39 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/04/06/how-to-make-true-friends-%e2%80%93-part-5-%e2%80%93-get-out-of-self-deprecation-mode/#comment-129105 [...] Part 5 - Get Our Of Self-Deprication Mode [...] [...] Part 5 – Get Our Of Self-Deprication Mode [...]

]]> By: Evaine http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/04/06/how-to-make-true-friends-%e2%80%93-part-5-%e2%80%93-get-out-of-self-deprecation-mode/comment-page-1/#comment-128483 Evaine Wed, 23 Apr 2008 14:57:06 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/04/06/how-to-make-true-friends-%e2%80%93-part-5-%e2%80%93-get-out-of-self-deprecation-mode/#comment-128483 Good post. You make some great points that most people do not fully understand. "Low self esteem and low self confidence can be debilitating but you can break the habit by changing the way you think and changing the way you speak. Stop the self deprecating talk and start to learn more about yourself and build on your successes." I like how you explained that. Very helpful. Thanks. Good post. You make some great points that most people do not fully understand.

“Low self esteem and low self confidence can be debilitating but you can break the habit by changing the way you think and changing the way you speak. Stop the self deprecating talk and start to learn more about yourself and build on your successes.”

I like how you explained that. Very helpful. Thanks.

]]> By: Gamy Rachel http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/04/06/how-to-make-true-friends-%e2%80%93-part-5-%e2%80%93-get-out-of-self-deprecation-mode/comment-page-1/#comment-125719 Gamy Rachel Sun, 13 Apr 2008 09:14:22 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/04/06/how-to-make-true-friends-%e2%80%93-part-5-%e2%80%93-get-out-of-self-deprecation-mode/#comment-125719 Great post. I like the points you brought out about dealing with the self deprecator. They are all very gracious ways to help them instead of depreciate them further in front of others. Thanks for sharing. Blessings Gamy Rachel Great post.

I like the points you brought out about dealing with the self deprecator.

They are all very gracious ways to help them instead of depreciate them further in front of others.

Thanks for sharing.

Blessings
Gamy Rachel

]]> By: Shamelle @ Enhance Life http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/04/06/how-to-make-true-friends-%e2%80%93-part-5-%e2%80%93-get-out-of-self-deprecation-mode/comment-page-1/#comment-125024 Shamelle @ Enhance Life Thu, 10 Apr 2008 09:21:12 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/04/06/how-to-make-true-friends-%e2%80%93-part-5-%e2%80%93-get-out-of-self-deprecation-mode/#comment-125024 True indeed. I read the entire series on the "How to make true friends"."The self-deprecator" was what I enjoyed the most. (I can tell that you put a lot of work into this.) True indeed.

I read the entire series on the “How to make true friends”.”The self-deprecator” was what I enjoyed the most.

(I can tell that you put a lot of work into this.)

]]> By: Phil the Plumbing Course Expert http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/04/06/how-to-make-true-friends-%e2%80%93-part-5-%e2%80%93-get-out-of-self-deprecation-mode/comment-page-1/#comment-124983 Phil the Plumbing Course Expert Thu, 10 Apr 2008 05:14:21 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/04/06/how-to-make-true-friends-%e2%80%93-part-5-%e2%80%93-get-out-of-self-deprecation-mode/#comment-124983 It's hard to deal with this kind of people. Very interesting topic, I got lots of useful information. Very helpful for those who have friends having this kind of attitude. It’s hard to deal with this kind of people. Very interesting topic, I got lots of useful information. Very helpful for those who have friends having this kind of attitude.

]]> By: Asia'h Epperson http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/04/06/how-to-make-true-friends-%e2%80%93-part-5-%e2%80%93-get-out-of-self-deprecation-mode/comment-page-1/#comment-124548 Asia'h Epperson Tue, 08 Apr 2008 01:51:28 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/04/06/how-to-make-true-friends-%e2%80%93-part-5-%e2%80%93-get-out-of-self-deprecation-mode/#comment-124548 A friend of mine is pretty good in this. She seems to show her sadness on her face everyday and out of concern, we ask. It goes on for days and days and then we get sick of it. Now, I know that's called self decprecator. Great post. A friend of mine is pretty good in this. She seems to show her sadness on her face everyday and out of concern, we ask. It goes on for days and days and then we get sick of it. Now, I know that’s called self decprecator. Great post.

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