Comments on: How to make true friends – Part 3 – The art of honesty http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/03/26/how-to-make-true-friends-part-3-the-art-of-honesty/#utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=how-to-make-true-friends-part-3-the-art-of-honesty to change your life Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:10:38 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: mok http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/03/26/how-to-make-true-friends-part-3-the-art-of-honesty/comment-page-1/#comment-199977 mok Sun, 23 Aug 2009 04:50:54 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/03/26/how-to-make-true-friends-part-3-the-art-of-honesty/#comment-199977 """ Q. Can you to take on another project? – A. I would love to work on that however I want more time with my family and I am already working on """ LOL! just how is this being honest? "I would love to work on that" lmao! “”"
Q. Can you to take on another project? –
A. I would love to work on that however I want more time with my family and I am already working on
“”"

LOL! just how is this being honest? “I would love to work on that” lmao!

]]> By: abozai http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/03/26/how-to-make-true-friends-part-3-the-art-of-honesty/comment-page-1/#comment-175581 abozai Fri, 13 Feb 2009 13:27:34 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/03/26/how-to-make-true-friends-part-3-the-art-of-honesty/#comment-175581 Sometime when I honesty to others,they don't.I not really believe that in this world still got real friend... Sometime when I honesty to others,they don’t.I not really believe that in this world still got real friend…

]]> By: böcek ilaçlama http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/03/26/how-to-make-true-friends-part-3-the-art-of-honesty/comment-page-1/#comment-159226 böcek ilaçlama Fri, 26 Sep 2008 12:34:27 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/03/26/how-to-make-true-friends-part-3-the-art-of-honesty/#comment-159226 You touch something here. Comfort zone. If you are not comfortable telling the truth to yourself and others, is worth reviewing the thoughts around it, and knock them down. The underlying message is most likely some kind of social imprint of inadequacy with what it is. Nothing to do with who you really are. I am with Naples, personal responsibility goes a long way. You touch something here. Comfort zone. If you are not comfortable telling the truth to yourself and others, is worth reviewing the thoughts around it, and knock them down. The underlying message is most likely some kind of social imprint of inadequacy with what it is. Nothing to do with who you really are. I am with Naples, personal responsibility goes a long way.

]]> By: Wrinkle Cream - Marcus http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/03/26/how-to-make-true-friends-part-3-the-art-of-honesty/comment-page-1/#comment-134014 Wrinkle Cream - Marcus Mon, 19 May 2008 03:37:04 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/03/26/how-to-make-true-friends-part-3-the-art-of-honesty/#comment-134014 Thanks for this post! The part about being honest with yourself is important. It takes awareness and not being afraid to admit something to yourself - this is often the most difficult step as you may not want to admit something head on. But when you do, you realise that it wasn't so bad after all, and that you can then change the behavior or the feeling, and move on. Thanks for this post! The part about being honest with yourself is important. It takes awareness and not being afraid to admit something to yourself – this is often the most difficult step as you may not want to admit something head on. But when you do, you realise that it wasn’t so bad after all, and that you can then change the behavior or the feeling, and move on.

]]> By: spostareduro http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/03/26/how-to-make-true-friends-part-3-the-art-of-honesty/comment-page-1/#comment-123353 spostareduro Thu, 03 Apr 2008 17:12:37 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/03/26/how-to-make-true-friends-part-3-the-art-of-honesty/#comment-123353 Excellent post once again. Honesty builds respect from others to you and for yourself personally. Excellent post once again. Honesty builds respect from others to you and for yourself personally.

]]> By: Marc and Angel Hack Life http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/03/26/how-to-make-true-friends-part-3-the-art-of-honesty/comment-page-1/#comment-123350 Marc and Angel Hack Life Thu, 03 Apr 2008 17:01:47 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/03/26/how-to-make-true-friends-part-3-the-art-of-honesty/#comment-123350 Sorry for the spelling error... please correct it for me. ;-) Sorry for the spelling error… please correct it for me. ;-)

]]> By: Marc and Angel Hack Life http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/03/26/how-to-make-true-friends-part-3-the-art-of-honesty/comment-page-1/#comment-123345 Marc and Angel Hack Life Thu, 03 Apr 2008 16:55:58 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/03/26/how-to-make-true-friends-part-3-the-art-of-honesty/#comment-123345 You idea of tactful honesty makes sense on a broad scope. However, one must always be ready to openly explain themselves in situations that require it. Not doing so would be dishonest. All in all, great article! ;-) Marc You idea of tactful honesty makes sense on a broad scope. However, one must always be ready to openly explain themselves in situations that require it. Not doing so would be dishonest.

All in all, great article! ;-)

Marc

]]> By: Luz Aguirrebena http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/03/26/how-to-make-true-friends-part-3-the-art-of-honesty/comment-page-1/#comment-122684 Luz Aguirrebena Tue, 01 Apr 2008 00:03:44 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/03/26/how-to-make-true-friends-part-3-the-art-of-honesty/#comment-122684 Hi Steve, great point. Honesty. You touch something here. Comfort zone. If you are not comfortable telling the truth to yourself and others, is worth reviewing the thoughts around it, and knock them down. The underlying message is most likely some kind of social imprint of inadequacy with what it is. Nothing to do with who you really are. I am with Naples, personal responsibility goes a long way. When you acknowledge your actions to people they immediately start respecting you. Yes, you are naked in front of the world...the real strength is in the weakness of being human. Is there any other way to be? After all our thoughts create our reality. It's so good to have the capacity to change our thoughts. Hi Steve, great point. Honesty. You touch something here. Comfort zone. If you are not comfortable telling the truth to yourself and others, is worth reviewing the thoughts around it, and knock them down. The underlying message is most likely some kind of social imprint of inadequacy with what it is. Nothing to do with who you really are. I am with Naples, personal responsibility goes a long way. When you acknowledge your actions to people they immediately start respecting you. Yes, you are naked in front of the world…the real strength is in the weakness of being human. Is there any other way to be? After all our thoughts create our reality. It’s so good to have the capacity to change our thoughts.

]]> By: Steven Aitchison http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/03/26/how-to-make-true-friends-part-3-the-art-of-honesty/comment-page-1/#comment-122339 Steven Aitchison Sun, 30 Mar 2008 19:53:18 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/03/26/how-to-make-true-friends-part-3-the-art-of-honesty/#comment-122339 Hi Dan, You're absolutely right, always tell the truth as you never forget the truth but it's easy to forget the lies you've told. Hi M&S, My wife is the most honest person I know and people seem to be magnetically attracted to her. Hi Naples, I think when we are honest with ourselves we will find it easier to be honest with other people. Hi Andy, thanks for your comments, always good to see you here. Hi magic, thanks for your comments I apprecaite them. Hi karl, It's great that you have turned your life around, I love hearing stories like this. See you over at Copyblogger :) Hi Dan, You’re absolutely right, always tell the truth as you never forget the truth but it’s easy to forget the lies you’ve told.

Hi M&S, My wife is the most honest person I know and people seem to be magnetically attracted to her.

Hi Naples, I think when we are honest with ourselves we will find it easier to be honest with other people.

Hi Andy, thanks for your comments, always good to see you here.

Hi magic, thanks for your comments I apprecaite them.

Hi karl, It’s great that you have turned your life around, I love hearing stories like this. See you over at Copyblogger :)

]]> By: Karl Staib - Your Work Happiness Matters http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/03/26/how-to-make-true-friends-part-3-the-art-of-honesty/comment-page-1/#comment-122336 Karl Staib - Your Work Happiness Matters Sun, 30 Mar 2008 19:44:55 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/03/26/how-to-make-true-friends-part-3-the-art-of-honesty/#comment-122336 "Be blunt and take action" is a great technique. I've never lacked bluntness when analyzing myself, but I never took action. My inner dialog was terribly negative. My life is now great. I use this bluntness to improve my life. When I get down on my writing style I do a little research on Copyblogger to add a new skill. I do this in every area of my life. Thanks for the reminder! I think I'll go check Copyblogger right now. “Be blunt and take action” is a great technique. I’ve never lacked bluntness when analyzing myself, but I never took action. My inner dialog was terribly negative.

My life is now great. I use this bluntness to improve my life. When I get down on my writing style I do a little research on Copyblogger to add a new skill. I do this in every area of my life.

Thanks for the reminder! I think I’ll go check Copyblogger right now.

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