Comments on: 14 Great ways to be miserable http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/02/27/12-great-ways-to-be-miserable/ to change your life Sun, 21 Mar 2010 21:40:31 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: ETF FOOL http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/02/27/12-great-ways-to-be-miserable/comment-page-1/#comment-205243 ETF FOOL Fri, 26 Feb 2010 08:55:56 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/02/27/12-great-ways-to-be-miserable/#comment-205243 [...] 14 great ways to be miserable (StevenAitchison) [...] [...] 14 great ways to be miserable (StevenAitchison) [...]

]]> By: This n That: Links « Windows Wide Open http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/02/27/12-great-ways-to-be-miserable/comment-page-1/#comment-204788 This n That: Links « Windows Wide Open Fri, 12 Feb 2010 15:05:49 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/02/27/12-great-ways-to-be-miserable/#comment-204788 [...] This blog post on 14 Great Ways To Be Miserable made me laugh out loud–because it is so ridiculously true. We all know the type, folks that [...] [...] This blog post on 14 Great Ways To Be Miserable made me laugh out loud–because it is so ridiculously true. We all know the type, folks that [...]

]]> By: My Own Little Blog Carnival | Your Finances 101 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/02/27/12-great-ways-to-be-miserable/comment-page-1/#comment-204698 My Own Little Blog Carnival | Your Finances 101 Wed, 10 Feb 2010 10:41:38 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/02/27/12-great-ways-to-be-miserable/#comment-204698 [...] Change Your Thoughts/Change Your Life—14 Great Ways to be Miserable [...] [...] Change Your Thoughts/Change Your Life—14 Great Ways to be Miserable [...]

]]> By: Connie http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/02/27/12-great-ways-to-be-miserable/comment-page-1/#comment-204662 Connie Mon, 08 Feb 2010 23:21:21 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/02/27/12-great-ways-to-be-miserable/#comment-204662 Hubby was telling me I should send this to the most positive people I know on April Fools day. All those silly positive people take their positive attitudes so seriously. Hubby was telling me I should send this to the most positive people I know on April Fools day. All those silly positive people take their positive attitudes so seriously.

]]> By: Best of Personal Finance Roundup: 14 Great Ways to Be Miserable- Financial Eyes & Ears http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/02/27/12-great-ways-to-be-miserable/comment-page-1/#comment-204660 Best of Personal Finance Roundup: 14 Great Ways to Be Miserable- Financial Eyes & Ears Mon, 08 Feb 2010 19:12:09 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/02/27/12-great-ways-to-be-miserable/#comment-204660 [...] 14 Great Ways to be Miserable — You probably know at least one of them: people who seem to love being miserable. Chances are, however, that they weren’t always that way. See what it takes to stay in a permanent funk, and check the list to be certain you aren’t headed down that road yourself! Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life [...] [...] 14 Great Ways to be Miserable — You probably know at least one of them: people who seem to love being miserable. Chances are, however, that they weren’t always that way. See what it takes to stay in a permanent funk, and check the list to be certain you aren’t headed down that road yourself! Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life [...]

]]> By: Alicia http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/02/27/12-great-ways-to-be-miserable/comment-page-1/#comment-201818 Alicia Mon, 19 Oct 2009 11:54:37 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/02/27/12-great-ways-to-be-miserable/#comment-201818 I love this one! Made my day.. Soo funny I love this one! Made my day.. Soo funny

]]> By: Jo http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/02/27/12-great-ways-to-be-miserable/comment-page-1/#comment-201414 Jo Mon, 05 Oct 2009 09:56:56 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/02/27/12-great-ways-to-be-miserable/#comment-201414 Thank you for this article. I actually do know people who love being miserable and justifying their misery. It was a shock to me to find out that people willingly love to suffer, and have a stupid idea of martyrdom and self sacrifice. It's worse when they want others to follow their flawed beliefs. I have come to realize that nothing you say or do will ever change them, not even an article like this. Unless by some miracle, they wish to change. To those who don't get it, this is not about those who suffer from depression. ( I know 'cos I used to have depression and I don't use it as an excuse. I hate being depressed and I do my darnedest to get out of it. It's tough, but I don't wallow in my misery and enjoy it.) And it is not about those who are in bad circumstances and can't help it. The people that this article refers to, they are the ones that actually make a mockery of people who truly suffer. Honestly, maybe some of them do have underlying problems, (like self delusion/ undiagnosed depression/ self esteem issues) but most of us try to change or cope when something makes us unhappy. Or get help, which these folk refuse to do. Thank you for this article. I actually do know people who love being miserable and justifying their misery. It was a shock to me to find out that people willingly love to suffer, and have a stupid idea of martyrdom and self sacrifice. It’s worse when they want others to follow their flawed beliefs. I have come to realize that nothing you say or do will ever change them, not even an article like this. Unless by some miracle, they wish to change.

To those who don’t get it, this is not about those who suffer from depression. ( I know ‘cos I used to have depression and I don’t use it as an excuse. I hate being depressed and I do my darnedest to get out of it. It’s tough, but I don’t wallow in my misery and enjoy it.) And it is not about those who are in bad circumstances and can’t help it. The people that this article refers to, they are the ones that actually make a mockery of people who truly suffer.

Honestly, maybe some of them do have underlying problems, (like self delusion/ undiagnosed depression/ self esteem issues) but most of us try to change or cope when something makes us unhappy. Or get help, which these folk refuse to do.

]]> By: sadfatso http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/02/27/12-great-ways-to-be-miserable/comment-page-1/#comment-199071 sadfatso Tue, 07 Jul 2009 07:33:37 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/02/27/12-great-ways-to-be-miserable/#comment-199071 Some good tips here. I do most of them already but one or two will come in handy. Now I can be miserable much longer. Thanks! Some good tips here. I do most of them already but one or two will come in handy. Now I can be miserable much longer. Thanks!

]]> By: Web Design http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/02/27/12-great-ways-to-be-miserable/comment-page-1/#comment-187358 Web Design Thu, 23 Apr 2009 14:31:49 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/02/27/12-great-ways-to-be-miserable/#comment-187358 Ha Ha Great... If you do the 'opposite' of all of these then you'll have another article, on how to be happy! Works on sooo many levels! Ha Ha Great… If you do the ‘opposite’ of all of these then you’ll have another article, on how to be happy! Works on sooo many levels!

]]> By: Barcelona http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/02/27/12-great-ways-to-be-miserable/comment-page-1/#comment-176730 Barcelona Tue, 03 Mar 2009 22:39:59 +0000 http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2008/02/27/12-great-ways-to-be-miserable/#comment-176730 you have some valid points here but I have to say a lot depends on the area/environment you live in! E.G. People in spain suffer less from depression than people in sweden or germany you have some valid points here but I have to say a lot depends on the area/environment you live in!
E.G. People in spain suffer less from depression than people in sweden or germany

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