5 Ways to Reverse Engineer your life

When engineers want to know how a piece of machinery works, without breaking patent laws, they can reverse engineer it. This is the process of taking something apart, mechanical or electrical, and studying the various components that make the device work.
You can apply this to various aspects of your life and something which you do everyday without realising.
For example, when you want to know how someone is able to be productive, you simply buy their book or ask them exactly what they do. You are dissecting the various components of what that person does and looking at ways to implement their processes into your own life, this is reverse engineering.
Applying reverse engineering in your life
Now, the great thing about reverse engineering is that it becomes extremely powerful when you consciously apply it to your life instead of unconsciously applying it.
For example when I wanted to become a more productive person, I looked at ways people were being productive in their lives. Leo Babauta springs to mind here, he wrote an eBook on it read the review here and in it, he explained exactly what he does to be one of the most productive people I know.
You can do this with almost any area in your life
“If one person can do it, then others can do it”
5 Ways to reverse engineer your life
- Become more productive – Most people want to have more time in their lives to do the things they want. To reverse engineer the process simply talk to people who you think are productive and copy their methods. The important thing here is to speak to a lot of people, read a few books, and get your own method from a mashup of everyone you study.
- Become a better writer – There are millions of bloggers and aspiring authors out there looking to become better writers. To reverse engineer your way to better writing look at the bloggers, copywriters, and authors who you admire. Approach them and ask for tips. Most writers were not that great when they first started writing but they persevered and became great. If you are looking for a great book on the writing process read the excellent book by Stephen King – ‘On Writing’
- Make more money – This is the area I am most involved in just now. I am studying the internet marketers and the people who are making money just now online, looking at their methods, and applying it to my online efforts. I am not copying their methods as their methods would not necessarily work for me, but I am taking their methods, breaking them down, and applying my own style to it.
- Becoming a better parent – Another area I always work at. I started off from the viewpoint of looking at people who I considered to be bad parents and breaking down what it was to be a bad parent: always shouting at their kids, humiliating them in front of their friends, hitting them, inconsistent praise I see lots of things in my kids playground that I would never do to my child. Therefore, I start from the kind of parent I wouldn’t like to be and work it from there.
- Having a good career – I used to think I had a handle on having a good career. I thought it was all about finishing school, going to university, finding a good job, make lots of money etc etc. That is utter rubbish. I am now of the opinion you don’t need university at all for a good career however the benefits of going to university is great when you look at it from the social side, you learn to mix with a huge variety of people, you learn to be comfortable around academia, you learn the discipline of timescales, and so much more. The degree you get at the end of your university life may not count for much but the other transferable skills you learn whilst there are priceless. So, to have a good career you have to know what you REALLY want to do, not what you think you should be doing or what your parents want you to do but what you consider would be great. If you want a career as a cartoonist go for it, if you have a family monetise your cartoons, study the biggest earners in the field and find out what they are doing to keep food on the table.
Other ways to reverse engineer your life:
I have only given five ways of reverse engineering your life there are countless others. Start to see that every area of your life can be improved upon by reverse engineering someone else’s life.
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Comment by charlotte on 4 December 2007:
cool… I am so glad that I found you, or rather, that you found me
Lots of inspiration here…
I just installed a visionboard on Facebook, I think that is pretty cool too ( i use a visionboard already since a year or so); it seems awareness is rising.
Thanks for all the info and the good vibes! And the inspiration too, we do have some goals in common
Comment by Etavitom on 4 December 2007:
Thanks for the phenomenal post and all the inspiration…. All the best
Comment by Steven Aitchison on 5 December 2007:
Hi Charlotte, Thanks for the comments much appreciated.
Hi motivate, thanks for coming back and thanks for the comments, I really appreciate them.
Comment by tracy ho on 5 December 2007:
Inspiring & motivate for us to carry on our lives.
thank you
Tracy Ho
Comment by Lodewijkvdb on 6 December 2007:
Great article Steven!
This strategy is part of Neuro Linguistic Programming too, albeit for Master Practitioners (haven’t started that one yet). But it’s a proven strategy that works.
It’s even better when you can learn from the people at the time they are doing their magic. You want to learn from the cook in the kitchen.
Comment by Albert | UrbanMonk.Net on 6 December 2007:
Hey Steven! I love how you really emphasize the “personal touch”. No one ever found success by being someone else, they always found it by being themselves. Brilliant!
Cheers,
Albert | UrbanMonk.Net
Modern personal development, entwined with ancient spirituality.
Comment by Alex on 7 December 2007:
Number 6: Become an action taker … I have found that we can gather all the education and work on improving ourselves but without acting on the knowledge we already have - we will still not accomplish too much …
Alex
Comment by Steven Aitchison on 7 December 2007:
Hi Tracy, thanks for your comment.
Hi Lodewijk, I got the inspiration from Richard Bandler after listening to one of his CDs in the car a few weeks ago.
Hi Albert, I think you found my main point, be true to yourself but still change what you don’t like.
Hi Alex, thanks for adding no.6 and a great point a well.
Comment by Lodewijkvdb on 7 December 2007:
LOL!
That’s as close as you can get to the foundations of NLP
Comment by charlotte on 7 December 2007:
Funny, I’m a master practitioner NLP, I did not even realise that maybe for some people this is not normal
Lodewijk: You will be sooooo happy when you do the master’s, it is really great. I did mine with Tarazat (Rotterdam), nice mix with spirituality too.
Bandler is awesome, I am going to check out those CD’s!!
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Comment by Self-improvement Advice on 26 March 2008:
This is very inspiring. Another good ways to improve people’s lives, motivates, and gain self-confidence.
-Jan
Comment by Evaine on 23 April 2008:
Good post. You make some great points that most people do not fully understand.
“Become more productive – Most people want to have more time in their lives to do the things they want. To reverse engineer the process simply talk to people who you think are productive and copy their methods. The important thing here is to speak to a lot of people, read a few books, and get your own method from a mashup of everyone you study.”
I like how you explained that. Very helpful. Thanks.