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		<title>By: Today Is That Day &#124; Self Improvement and Law of Attraction Link Love, Volume 15</title>
		<link>http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2007/05/16/how-to-change-your-life-in-60-seconds/comment-page-1/#comment-202602</link>
		<dc:creator>Today Is That Day &#124; Self Improvement and Law of Attraction Link Love, Volume 15</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2009 02:43:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Your Thoughts &#8211; 3 simple steps &#8211; 60 seconds of your time &#8211; change your life: How to change your life in 60 seconds. Powerful stuff from Steven Aitchison worth giving more than 60 seconds of thought [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Your Thoughts &#8211; 3 simple steps &#8211; 60 seconds of your time &#8211; change your life: How to change your life in 60 seconds. Powerful stuff from Steven Aitchison worth giving more than 60 seconds of thought [...]</p>
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		<title>By: garry</title>
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		<dc:creator>garry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 15:55:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi everyone,
                          i&#039;m going through a life changing experiance at the moment yesterday everyone i was in contact with thought i was having a nervous breakdown. so this is for Val and anyone who wishes to take time to read it.
life for me was in a cofort zone but my veiws of a comfort zone have changed all that was have changed my comfort zone includes a list and so does yours we all pick and choose whats on that list if we want it to include something else only ourselves can add it and keep it there if we so choose.
my list missed one fundimental thing to enjoy and to make the most of what i already have, that lesson has been learnt and will be adhered to.
certain things will be added to my list but with baby steps and one thing at a time theres no need to rush as long as your happy without happyness theres nothing so i work towards getting my happyness and if i dont get it before i die at least i will be happy in the knowlage i died at least trying.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi everyone,<br />
                          i&#8217;m going through a life changing experiance at the moment yesterday everyone i was in contact with thought i was having a nervous breakdown. so this is for Val and anyone who wishes to take time to read it.<br />
life for me was in a cofort zone but my veiws of a comfort zone have changed all that was have changed my comfort zone includes a list and so does yours we all pick and choose whats on that list if we want it to include something else only ourselves can add it and keep it there if we so choose.<br />
my list missed one fundimental thing to enjoy and to make the most of what i already have, that lesson has been learnt and will be adhered to.<br />
certain things will be added to my list but with baby steps and one thing at a time theres no need to rush as long as your happy without happyness theres nothing so i work towards getting my happyness and if i dont get it before i die at least i will be happy in the knowlage i died at least trying.</p>
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		<title>By: Val</title>
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		<dc:creator>Val</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Sep 2009 11:56:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi
I am a very young 60 year old, living in sheltered accommodation, amounst a lot of elderly residents and have become so use to it now, I&#039;m in a comfort  zone, the only people I mix with outside of my home is my daughter and two grandchilren, I also have a large family who I have a lot to do with, I don&#039;t have any friends , I have lived alone now for 8 years and for the last three years, I&#039;ve been taking anti-depressants from the doctor, I feel like screaming most of the time and so want my life to change, but I don&#039;t feel comfortable when it comes to leaving my comfort zone. PLEASE PLEASE can you help?
desparate Val</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi<br />
I am a very young 60 year old, living in sheltered accommodation, amounst a lot of elderly residents and have become so use to it now, I&#8217;m in a comfort  zone, the only people I mix with outside of my home is my daughter and two grandchilren, I also have a large family who I have a lot to do with, I don&#8217;t have any friends , I have lived alone now for 8 years and for the last three years, I&#8217;ve been taking anti-depressants from the doctor, I feel like screaming most of the time and so want my life to change, but I don&#8217;t feel comfortable when it comes to leaving my comfort zone. PLEASE PLEASE can you help?<br />
desparate Val</p>
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		<title>By: belstr</title>
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		<dc:creator>belstr</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Aug 2009 22:35:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>you are all crazy, the pages are already wrote, what ever happens its just the way it is, just like the big bang, it meant to happen and did.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>you are all crazy, the pages are already wrote, what ever happens its just the way it is, just like the big bang, it meant to happen and did.</p>
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		<title>By: How to change your life in 60 seconds Change your thoughts &#124; Wood TV Stand</title>
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		<dc:creator>How to change your life in 60 seconds Change your thoughts &#124; Wood TV Stand</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Jun 2009 21:25:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] How to change your life in 60 seconds Change your thoughts   Posted by root 1 hour 30 minutes ago (http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk)        I totally agree about the comment raised earlier that change is about a mind set and one of the biggest influencers i found to be was my tv and pay her him with the extra money you make in your new high powered job woothemes premium wordpress themes club        Discuss&#160;  &#124;&#160; Bury &#124;&#160;    News &#124; How to change your life in 60 seconds Change your thoughts [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] How to change your life in 60 seconds Change your thoughts   Posted by root 1 hour 30 minutes ago (<a href="http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk">http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk</a>)        I totally agree about the comment raised earlier that change is about a mind set and one of the biggest influencers i found to be was my tv and pay her him with the extra money you make in your new high powered job woothemes premium wordpress themes club        Discuss&nbsp;  |&nbsp; Bury |&nbsp;    News | How to change your life in 60 seconds Change your thoughts [...]</p>
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		<title>By: How to change your life in 60 seconds Change your thoughts &#124; Wood TV Stand</title>
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		<dc:creator>How to change your life in 60 seconds Change your thoughts &#124; Wood TV Stand</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 17:46:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] How to change your life in 60 seconds Change your thoughts   Posted by root 20 hours ago (http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk)        I totally agree about the comment raised earlier that change is about a mind set and one of the biggest influencers i found to be was my tv and pay her him with the extra money you make in your new high powered job woothemes premium wordpress themes club        Discuss&#160;  &#124;&#160; Bury &#124;&#160;    News &#124; How to change your life in 60 seconds Change your thoughts [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] How to change your life in 60 seconds Change your thoughts   Posted by root 20 hours ago (<a href="http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk">http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk</a>)        I totally agree about the comment raised earlier that change is about a mind set and one of the biggest influencers i found to be was my tv and pay her him with the extra money you make in your new high powered job woothemes premium wordpress themes club        Discuss&nbsp;  |&nbsp; Bury |&nbsp;    News | How to change your life in 60 seconds Change your thoughts [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Nicky</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nicky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2009 21:12:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Steven, thanks for your response.  Yes, a new job would pay a lot more.  However I would be working until around 7pm and much later during the busy season.  This means I wouldn&#039;t get home until after the kids are in bed.  The problem is that I wouldn&#039;t see the kids during the week and also I would be relying on a hired person to feed them dinner, bath them and go through all their homework with them (which is a lot) including dealing with all the many notes and forms I get regarding school situations; projects due/meetings/field trips/bake sales, the kids&#039; behaviour that day or test results I am to &quot;discuss&quot; with them etc. etc.  I just don&#039;t see how it would work.  Husband is in I.T. and so gets home late.  So balance is a huge consideration like you said.  I&#039;m thinking of trying to get a lower position in one of the companies I&#039;d like to work for, perhaps then I can fill a higher position later on.  I just don&#039;t know.  Thanks for your thoughts.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Steven, thanks for your response.  Yes, a new job would pay a lot more.  However I would be working until around 7pm and much later during the busy season.  This means I wouldn&#8217;t get home until after the kids are in bed.  The problem is that I wouldn&#8217;t see the kids during the week and also I would be relying on a hired person to feed them dinner, bath them and go through all their homework with them (which is a lot) including dealing with all the many notes and forms I get regarding school situations; projects due/meetings/field trips/bake sales, the kids&#8217; behaviour that day or test results I am to &#8220;discuss&#8221; with them etc. etc.  I just don&#8217;t see how it would work.  Husband is in I.T. and so gets home late.  So balance is a huge consideration like you said.  I&#8217;m thinking of trying to get a lower position in one of the companies I&#8217;d like to work for, perhaps then I can fill a higher position later on.  I just don&#8217;t know.  Thanks for your thoughts.</p>
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		<title>By: Steven Aitchison</title>
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		<dc:creator>Steven Aitchison</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2009 05:06:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Nicky

Thanks for writing in.  Obviously I don&#039;t know your life situation.  If you wanted to pursue a demanding job requiring overtime, I am assuming it pays more? If it does would you not be able to hire a nanny of some kind to pick your kids up from school and pay her/him with the extra money you make in your new high powered job.  This way they don&#039;t have to go to afterschool, if they don&#039;t want to, and you get to do the job you want.  However there has to be a balance and it would be making sure you spent enough time with the kids.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Nicky</p>
<p>Thanks for writing in.  Obviously I don&#8217;t know your life situation.  If you wanted to pursue a demanding job requiring overtime, I am assuming it pays more? If it does would you not be able to hire a nanny of some kind to pick your kids up from school and pay her/him with the extra money you make in your new high powered job.  This way they don&#8217;t have to go to afterschool, if they don&#8217;t want to, and you get to do the job you want.  However there has to be a balance and it would be making sure you spent enough time with the kids.</p>
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		<title>By: Nicky</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nicky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 May 2009 22:27:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I understand that the &quot;children excuse&quot; is not acceptable, however, many of you probably do not understand fully what it is like to have young children!  I do not know louise jean&#039;s situation but unfortuntely - as wonderful as having children are - I also feel it can limit one&#039;s ability to change.  For instance I would like to pursue a (pretty demanding) career which requires overtime due to the nature of the job but I CANNOT do this.  I MUST pick up my children from the after-school care - by 6:00pm latest because I work until 5:00pm - take them home, get them dinner, bathed and their homework done by bedtime at 8:30pm then and prepare lunch and laundry/school uniforms etc. for the next day.  

Like louise jean says I wonder if it will be too late to change careers when the kids are self-sufficient as this is many years away!  I am in a secure boring job where I may leave at 5:00pm on the dot and go to Sports Days and kids&#039; dentist appointments and school assemblies and parent/teacher meetings whenever I need too.  Yippee.  

Good thing I love the kids.  

Any thoughts?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I understand that the &#8220;children excuse&#8221; is not acceptable, however, many of you probably do not understand fully what it is like to have young children!  I do not know louise jean&#8217;s situation but unfortuntely &#8211; as wonderful as having children are &#8211; I also feel it can limit one&#8217;s ability to change.  For instance I would like to pursue a (pretty demanding) career which requires overtime due to the nature of the job but I CANNOT do this.  I MUST pick up my children from the after-school care &#8211; by 6:00pm latest because I work until 5:00pm &#8211; take them home, get them dinner, bathed and their homework done by bedtime at 8:30pm then and prepare lunch and laundry/school uniforms etc. for the next day.  </p>
<p>Like louise jean says I wonder if it will be too late to change careers when the kids are self-sufficient as this is many years away!  I am in a secure boring job where I may leave at 5:00pm on the dot and go to Sports Days and kids&#8217; dentist appointments and school assemblies and parent/teacher meetings whenever I need too.  Yippee.  </p>
<p>Good thing I love the kids.  </p>
<p>Any thoughts?</p>
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		<title>By: jouer aux casinos de jeux</title>
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		<dc:creator>jouer aux casinos de jeux</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 07:17:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When life at the job gets boring and wearisome, wear something you normally wouldn’t. You don’t have to go overboard, but just add that little something that’s out of the ordinary. Laughter is the very best medicine for a 60 second lift. Find or phone a happy friend for a lift. Tell a joke of your own, or ask someone to tell you a joke. Look for something silly on the internet to make you laugh. Rent a silly movie, read the comics. Don&#039;t take life so. Laughter is available from a lot of sources. 
http://www.jouez-gratis.fr</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When life at the job gets boring and wearisome, wear something you normally wouldn’t. You don’t have to go overboard, but just add that little something that’s out of the ordinary. Laughter is the very best medicine for a 60 second lift. Find or phone a happy friend for a lift. Tell a joke of your own, or ask someone to tell you a joke. Look for something silly on the internet to make you laugh. Rent a silly movie, read the comics. Don&#8217;t take life so. Laughter is available from a lot of sources.<br />
<a href="http://www.jouez-gratis.fr">http://www.jouez-gratis.fr</a></p>
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