How to be more focused
The downtime and uptime of the attentive mind
In NLP there are two states of attention called downtime and uptime.
Downtime is when we are focusing our attention on our internal
world. We
drift in and out of downtime all the time. When we are reading something
and we haven’t taken the text in at all as we have been focusing on
something else in our minds. It is an unconscious process, we don’t
really have control of it unless we become conscious of it.
Uptime is when we are concentrating on the external world. When we need
to focus on driving a road we don’t know, we are in uptime. Our
thoughts tend not to drift internally when we need to concentrate on something.
The importance of downtime and uptime is that we can balance them by becoming
conscious of our attention. The benefit to you is that you can
become more focused in the external world (uptime) and more relaxed in your
internal world (downtime).
Being focused
After an argument, do you ever have conversations in your head, about what
you could have said to that person if you were calmer or had been a little
more quick witted? We all have thoughts like this every day. I was driving
down to work the other day when another driver cut in front of me, I then proceeded
to think of a whole scenario whereby I had an argument with the driver, what
I would say, what he would say, the police getting involved, how my wife would
feel, how the kids would react…….it was crazy. I had a
full blown argument in my head, I felt the emotions, I saw the outcomes of
different scenes and I put myself into a state of anger all because someone
had cut in front of me. From that one event I wasted so much energy,
wasted time thinking about what might have happened, put myself into a bad
mood, and it could have been such a shit day had I not caught myself in time. I
thought of something happy in my life and quickly changed the state, but you
can see how being in downtime when we should be in uptime can change us.
If we are focused and make ourselves aware of what we are
doing at any particular moment we can learn to concentrate better and have
a more productive life. In
buddhism this is called ‘being in the moment’ or ‘mindfulness’.
Becoming more focused in uptime
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To start becoming more focused take it a step at a time. For
the next week make a point to become aware of your surroundings on the
hour every waking hour. So for example your are in the office and
it’s 10
O’Clock become aware of your surroundings. Become aware of
the people sitting next to you, become aware of the caller you are speaking
to, their voice, their tone, their state. Just try and take in everything
around you and notice little things like the colour of the poster on the
wall, the smell in the office. This will kickstart your uptime focussing. -
After 2 or 3 weeks of general focussing become more
specific. Notice
what people are wearing from day to day, notice their hairstyles, notice
their moods, notice the changes in the office. Also begin to notice
your thoughts at any given moment, how are you feeling? Don’t question
it, just notice it. Pretty soon you will start to see patterns in your
thinking. You are happier around particular people, you are happier
at a particular time of day. -
After another 2-3 weeks focus on the job your are doing. If you are
a plumber, notice the tools you are using and how they are used, concentrate
of every turn of the wrench, listen to your breathing as you are working,
every time your thoughts drift internally pull them back to the moment. It
can help to say out loud or internally what you are doing: “ I am typing
on my keyboard”, “ I am driving to work, I can see a blue car
in front of me” etc -
Over time you will become much more used to being mindful
and it will happen automatically. However do not get complacent,
every now and again remind yourself to be in the moment.
Being more relaxed in downtime
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By being more aware and concentrating more in uptime
you will automatically become more relaxed in downtime. Ultimate downtime is sleeping and
you will find your sleep is deeper therefore you are more relaxed
and refreshed in the morning. -
Also practicing simple meditation will greatly enhance
your downtime and life in general. 15 minutes per day in downtime
meditation will greatly enhance your concentration, focus, visualisation,
law of attraction and your life in general. -
I listen to guided meditations for my downtime meditation and use it in
the morning and afternoon. -
Take downtime breaks at work. As I am out in the car visiting clients
a lot of the time I take a few 10 minute breaks on a hill overlooking countryside
and it’s great just to sit there and look out. I find it refreshes
my mind and prepares me for the next few hours ahead.
Downtime and uptime go hand in hand and you can greatly enhance
your life if you practice focused mindful uptime and more relaxing downtime. Why
not try it for 21
days and make it a habit or just let it go if it doesn’t work for
you.
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Comment by conners on 15 May 2007:
hi my name is conners, i’m 21 and work in a dead end job. i have always found it hard to concentrate, all my year reports all say the same, “ok but with more focus Conners could do very well”. I dont want to start from the bottom and work my way up in a job, i want just to make money with my own ideas. i have some very good money making ideas through being a day dreamer but being a day dreamer comes at a price in being very lazy. i get home from work look at my to do list and then become very lazy and not do any of them. it is not like i use my energy at work, as i think i put more effort in pretending to work. I feel i have the hunger and dssire to be at the top but i lack concentration and focus. Can you help me?
Comment by Steven Aitchison on 16 May 2007:
Hi Conners
Thanks for leaving a comment.
You admit you are lazy and you also state your to do list is looked at in the evening when you get home; when you are tired, your brain is tired and your motivation is low.
Try starting your to do list in the morning, first thing. get up 1 hour earlier and do everything you can in that hour and tick off each item.
Try it for 1 week to start with and your motivation and enthusiasm should grow as you cross off more items.
Let me know how you get on with this and we can speak further once you have tried this if you wish.
Comment by conners on 13 June 2007:
thank you mr aitchison for your reply but i am sadley to report back that your method did not work. i did try ur advice getting up 1 hour before normal but the things i have on my to do list can be noisey when others are in bed. also it made me even more tired in the evening when getting back from work.
Comment by Steve Harold - Hypnosis Cds on 13 March 2008:
I think that’s a great article. Often to make tips like these work you need to take them and own them. In other words make them yours by finding ways of adapting them to your life. Even partially adding some of the points here will help if you persist with them.
Comment by Ruth Day on 16 August 2008:
I never feel completely relaxed, I am not lazy but start many jobs and do not finish them. I am full of enthusiasm but get fed up too quickly. I do not have any money or health worries. I make friends very easily but after a while find them irratating. I feel that I have to be the one that keeps the conversation rolling and ideas going in a conversation, I cannot stand awkward silences.Please can you help me?
Ruth
Comment by l.jane on 17 August 2008:
Dear Ruth,
You did not mention your age but I am 65. I came across this site as our son is now 40 and I thought I would look for similar letters to a grown child and that is how your letter came up. I was struck about your profile as it is almost identical to mine. I can only suggest that you be tested for A.D.D..I was about 15 years ago and have been medicated nad it makes my brain just “feel better” if that makes sense. My husband of 42 years has noticed a change. I have had to work on my patience as well. Askk God to show youu very clearly what gifts he has given you and act on them. Read a Proverb every day (love how there’s one for every day of the month!) Also know that I have found myself to be impulsive and tend to make choices too quickly and do things too impulsively as well. Back to the Bible, in the old Testament the book of Jeremiah 33:3 it says”CALL TO ME AND I WILL ANSWER YOU AND TELL YOU GREAT AND UNSEARCHABLE THINGS YOU DO NOT KNOW’. wELL, THAT IS very COMFORTING FOR ME AS IT GIVES ME HOPE AND THE DIRECTION i NEED. Ruth, I will pray for you, your wonderful spirit and that God will guide you onto himself so that you may experience his peace. It is also very important that you eat the right foods and at the right times. Three meals a day. Let me know how you are doing. Your new Friend, L.Jane
Comment by Steven Aitchison on 17 August 2008:
Hi Ruth
I would appreciate if you would contact me using the contact form and we can work through this via email. You may see this as a problem but it can be fixed if you are willing to work at it and i would love to help you.
Regards
Steve