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	<description>to change your life</description>
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		<title>By: Gasper</title>
		<link>http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2007/04/28/changing-your-personality/comment-page-1/#comment-206232</link>
		<dc:creator>Gasper</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Mar 2010 23:18:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi, an interesting take on the topic - though after reading the article one is left with an impression that you akin the human mind to a piece of software as if one could easily install and uninstall &quot;patches&quot; at will . Needless to say - the human mind does not actually work like that, does it?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, an interesting take on the topic &#8211; though after reading the article one is left with an impression that you akin the human mind to a piece of software as if one could easily install and uninstall &#8220;patches&#8221; at will . Needless to say &#8211; the human mind does not actually work like that, does it?</p>
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		<title>By: Dean</title>
		<link>http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2007/04/28/changing-your-personality/comment-page-1/#comment-123396</link>
		<dc:creator>Dean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Apr 2008 20:15:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;I could say ‘I am the funniest man alive’ all day but it won’t make me funny.&quot; lmao</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;I could say ‘I am the funniest man alive’ all day but it won’t make me funny.&#8221; lmao</p>
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		<title>By: fluencev</title>
		<link>http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2007/04/28/changing-your-personality/comment-page-1/#comment-17415</link>
		<dc:creator>fluencev</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 May 2007 21:28:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>a very informative article!(*^__^*) 
I will remain calm in the face of frustrations.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>a very informative article!(*^__^*)<br />
I will remain calm in the face of frustrations.</p>
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		<title>By: may</title>
		<link>http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2007/04/28/changing-your-personality/comment-page-1/#comment-14910</link>
		<dc:creator>may</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 May 2007 19:06:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We need to be good to ourselves.
thanks for sharing
wisdomofgettingwealthy.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We need to be good to ourselves.<br />
thanks for sharing<br />
wisdomofgettingwealthy.com</p>
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		<title>By: Janice</title>
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		<dc:creator>Janice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 May 2007 12:09:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Steven

Wonderful post. This is like an action plan of what you want to be and to me personally, point #2 is simply getting Law Of Attraction to work for you and deliver what you want.

As mentioned in an report of an interview given by Bob Proctor, when we affirm what we want to be, we sent out vibrations which start to attract thoughts to us that’s going to help us get there.. Using your example, affirmation to be an outgoing person, we’ll start to attract thoughts on how we can achieve it and the process naturally follows… just my personal opinion</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Steven</p>
<p>Wonderful post. This is like an action plan of what you want to be and to me personally, point #2 is simply getting Law Of Attraction to work for you and deliver what you want.</p>
<p>As mentioned in an report of an interview given by Bob Proctor, when we affirm what we want to be, we sent out vibrations which start to attract thoughts to us that’s going to help us get there.. Using your example, affirmation to be an outgoing person, we’ll start to attract thoughts on how we can achieve it and the process naturally follows… just my personal opinion</p>
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		<title>By: AgentSully</title>
		<link>http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2007/04/28/changing-your-personality/comment-page-1/#comment-13927</link>
		<dc:creator>AgentSully</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 May 2007 21:11:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>so true. practice makes perfect. 
best. AS</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>so true. practice makes perfect.<br />
best. AS</p>
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		<title>By: Article Brain Editot</title>
		<link>http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2007/04/28/changing-your-personality/comment-page-1/#comment-13547</link>
		<dc:creator>Article Brain Editot</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Apr 2007 11:37:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love this type of stuff. Please post it at my article site http://www.ArticleBrain.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love this type of stuff. Please post it at my article site <a href="http://www.ArticleBrain.com">http://www.ArticleBrain.com</a></p>
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		<title>By: Steven Aitchison</title>
		<link>http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2007/04/28/changing-your-personality/comment-page-1/#comment-13520</link>
		<dc:creator>Steven Aitchison</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Apr 2007 06:27:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Sully

Of course, there will always be days when we need to let off steam.  What happens with this method is: instead of blowing up every day as the pressure builds, when we are calm the pressure is building but to a much lesser degree so therefore it takes longer to blow.  So, for example, I might let of steam every two weeks now whereas before it was every other day depending on the pressure.

Thanks again for your comments, always insightful.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Sully</p>
<p>Of course, there will always be days when we need to let off steam.  What happens with this method is: instead of blowing up every day as the pressure builds, when we are calm the pressure is building but to a much lesser degree so therefore it takes longer to blow.  So, for example, I might let of steam every two weeks now whereas before it was every other day depending on the pressure.</p>
<p>Thanks again for your comments, always insightful.</p>
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		<title>By: AgentSully</title>
		<link>http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2007/04/28/changing-your-personality/comment-page-1/#comment-13493</link>
		<dc:creator>AgentSully</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Apr 2007 02:02:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post. I think what you say at the end is important. We have to be kind to ourselves and not expect perfection immediately or ever for that matter. We need to strive for our personal best on any given day or moment.

In your example of being frustrated, I share that too. I&#039;m always trying to accomplish so much. I always wish I could get more done. By working on having more realistic expectations of what I can accomplish in any given day helps. Accepting that there is always a certain amount of inefficiency in a day can help too. And your mantra of &quot;I will remain calm in the face of frustrations&quot; is good too. 

Here&#039;s the big &quot;but&quot;...but there will still be days where you&#039;ll need to let the steam out with a scream or deep breathing or venting to a friend, whatever it is, that&#039;s ok.

In watching myself what I find is that if my energy is low (tired, exhausted) that&#039;s when stress is going to be harder to deal with, and that&#039;s the time to pace myself.

So the point about low energy is to also be kind to yourself, again, by recognizing it and pacing yourself. Take it slow...even if the world is demanding fast.

Anyhow, love your stuff. Cheers!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post. I think what you say at the end is important. We have to be kind to ourselves and not expect perfection immediately or ever for that matter. We need to strive for our personal best on any given day or moment.</p>
<p>In your example of being frustrated, I share that too. I&#8217;m always trying to accomplish so much. I always wish I could get more done. By working on having more realistic expectations of what I can accomplish in any given day helps. Accepting that there is always a certain amount of inefficiency in a day can help too. And your mantra of &#8220;I will remain calm in the face of frustrations&#8221; is good too. </p>
<p>Here&#8217;s the big &#8220;but&#8221;&#8230;but there will still be days where you&#8217;ll need to let the steam out with a scream or deep breathing or venting to a friend, whatever it is, that&#8217;s ok.</p>
<p>In watching myself what I find is that if my energy is low (tired, exhausted) that&#8217;s when stress is going to be harder to deal with, and that&#8217;s the time to pace myself.</p>
<p>So the point about low energy is to also be kind to yourself, again, by recognizing it and pacing yourself. Take it slow&#8230;even if the world is demanding fast.</p>
<p>Anyhow, love your stuff. Cheers!</p>
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		<title>By: Steven Aitchison</title>
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		<dc:creator>Steven Aitchison</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Apr 2007 20:39:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Attila

Thanks for leaving a comment.  I think the trait they would be needing would be to become more tactful :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Attila</p>
<p>Thanks for leaving a comment.  I think the trait they would be needing would be to become more tactful <img src='http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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